You’ve Never Made a Decision

To enlighten our experience of decision making it really helps to get clear on what we are actually doing when it comes to making decisions, and therefore to see that you have never made a decision in your life.

The video I’m sharing today was prompted after listening to this episode from Christine Heath and Judy Sedgeman in “Psychology Has it Backwards”. It’s about decision making and I shared it with a client who had some (what felt like) weighty decisions to make.

On the back of the episode, he said, but I’ve got decisions to make. How can I just sit back and wait for them to arise?

While we were exploring together a 3 stage process of decision-making occurred to me that I share with you in this video too. I show how our attention has been on the visible actions of making decisions. Ignoring the fact that the key ‘process’ stage (when the decision actually gets made) is invisible and something we know nothing about.

The recognition of this is the freedom with decisions we’ve been looking for.

You’ve never made a decision in your life. Really!

Watch the video and share what stands out for you. What questions or challenges do you have with this that I can help clarify or answer?

With love, Helen

P.S. There are loads more enlightening decision-making resources like this in the Wild Fig Members Community on Patreon. Just sign up and choose the ‘Decision Making’ tag to read and watch more.


Helen Amery
Helen Amery
Reconnecting you to innate brilliance for a more fulfilling life. Disillusionment happens when, things that we took to be true, start to look less so. People, belief systems, ways of working, societal norms. As these cracks, in reality, start to show we often look around to see what else is available to make sense of this, and these moments provide the opportunity for great change and the ability to step into a whole new and fresh experience of life. I work with disillusioned people who’ve worked hard all their lives to climb the career ladder, increase their income, who got the family and the house and the car and…then they look around and realise something’s still missing. They don’t feel more fulfilled. They don’t feel successful. They don’t feel secure. Sometimes these things have even become worse. My career has developed through commercial HR into psychology-based coaching, and now my work goes beyond psychology to the fundamental truths behind our human experience. This is the final shift in perspective that frees us from the imagined limitations we’ve gathered through life and reconnects us to our innate brilliance. It’s the direct path that other development can meander us to. From here we find fulfilment, security and a feeling of success – and we find we’re able to enjoy everything we already had, and new things, in an entirely fresh way. My business is called Wild Fig Solutions because the Wild Fig has the deepest roots in the world and I always cared about getting to the heart of what was going on. Now this work is really that as it reconnects us to our heart at the deepest level and naturally rebalances us so that we use the brilliance of our head in the way it works best. I work with clients online, in one-to-one and group coaching programmes, to help them reconnect to their innate brilliance. See my book here: Let’s Get Honest About: Work

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