Why Loving Yourself Just Isn’t Enough

When you are loving yourselves fully and authentically you enter into a harmonious state of balance that pervades every part of your life.

There’s no more question of self-worth. There’s only an understanding of your majesty and value to yourself, to the world and to your Creator.

This means that you’re not living in physical splendor while inside your dying and crying yourself to sleep nor are you living in a state of abject poverty while you find joy in every waking moment. No dears, when you are loving yourselves fully and authentically you enter into a harmonious state of balance that pervades every part of your life. You will still have desires but you will no longer have desperation. When you move beyond surface self-love, which is the condition of most beings in the physical state and into heart-centered self-love, the questions drop away, you no longer scurry around looking for validation or confirmation. There’s no more question of self-worth. There’s only an understanding of your majesty and value to yourself, to the world and to your Creator. When you allow your entire being to move from the place of supplicant who begs to be noticed to the place of honor in which you receive devoted attention as a matter of course, you’ll also move from the, “I hope so place” of beingness to the “I know so” place of belonging.

Connect through the heart with every aspect of your being

It’s time now for those of you who have come as leaders to connect fully and deeply from the heart with your Creator. The work you’ve agreed to do in this lifetime cannot be accomplished from a seat on the surface. You’ll all be able to mouth the words, “I love myself” and you’ll all be able to participate in acts that are self-loving but until you leave the surface with its glitter and glamour and go into the heart where you’ll find power and purpose you’ll only ever be able to imitate self-loving behavior, you won’t be able to truly accomplish it. If you want to integrate it through every layer of your being than you must connect through the heart with every aspect of your being.

Do not berate, belittle or condemn yourself for agreeing to participate in victim situations

Step out of the darkness and into the light by offering yourself unconditional forgiveness. Whatever you agreed to experience was agreed to because you believed it was necessary, deserved or that it would further your growth in some way.

We want you to look at the pain, the hurt and the trauma and then go beyond it to the place of power by seeing all of the gifts those experiences have brought forth. There will be times when you’ve perceived yourself to be the victim because someone or something caused you to experience pain. You must remember that this is impossible. No one and nothing can harm you unless you’ve given them permission to do so. Your free will protects you from unwanted experiences. Therefore, rather than wallow in self-pity over the tough circumstances, the harsh lesson or the unrelenting pain you must take a look at your part in the bargain. What agreements do you have in place that enabled you to spend time in the darkness? Rather than turn away, run away or hide your eyes, you must learn to look with wisdom on all that you’ve created. Once you understand your part in the experience, change your agreement from something unwanted to something desired as you change your learning experiences from pain to pleasure. Do not berate, belittle or condemn yourself for agreeing to participate in victim situations. Blame is not in order here but forgiveness is. Step out of the darkness and into the light by offering yourself unconditional forgiveness. Whatever you agreed to experience was agreed to because you believed it was necessary, deserved or that it would further your growth in some way. Before a growth experience occurs, you may have believed that harshness, condemnation or criticism were necessary in order for you to advance quickly but that’s a faulty mindset that will be corrected when you enter the heart and learn to truly love yourself by offering yourself forgiveness for all thoughts, words and deeds as you offer that same forgiveness to all others.

Free will states that agreement is necessary before interaction is possible

In addition, you will do well to recall that you were not always the victim. More often than you may want to believe you’ve been the perpetrator. So let go of all scorekeeping. Let those who did you wrong off the hook. Stop trying to punish everyone including yourself by holding to a judgmental place of blame and shame. None of you can take advantage of an unwilling person. Free will states that agreement is necessary before interaction is possible.

Embrace every part of yourself, forgive every unsavory aspect of your being

The only solution that has no negative energetic tail following along behind it, is love. Love yourself especially those dark aspects of yourself that you agreed to out of ignorance. They served the highest purpose possible and that was to move you forward into a journey of self-love. Embrace every part of yourself, forgive every unsavory aspect of your being. Draw back the curtains on your life and allow the unconditionally loving light of God to come pouring forth into every aspect of your self.

Love yourself completely from your heart-center and set yourself free

Allow the heart, which has experienced the pain and then stored the memory of that pain as a way to protect you, to become free by releasing all vestiges of the experience. Love yourself so deeply and forgive yourself so completely that nothing is standing between you and your Creator. Love yourself wide open so that you become the majestic, authentic self of power that you came here to be. Nothing is more powerful than a heart-centered being who has stepped fully into alignment with God, by offering themselves forgiveness as they lovingly accept and appreciate every aspect of themselves. Love yourself completely from your heart-center and set yourself free.