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When Genuine Kindness Opens Up Doors for Limitless Gratitude

Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.

—The 14th Dalai Lama

I was lost in Stockholm Central Station in the middle of the renovation work last year. It was my fifth visit to the beautiful capital of Sweden. Still, it didn’t seem to help that much. It was a busy weekday. People were in a rush, and I was hopelessly looking for some clear indications. I couldn’t even see the information desk or someone from the staff whom I could ask.

Suddenly, I sensed a hand on my shoulder. I turned around to find a gorgeous young lady with a charming smile. She asked me softly, “Do you need some assistance?” I’m guessing my face sparkled with joy since her smile became brilliant, “Yes please; you’re saving me! I never thought it would be that difficult to find my way in this station!” Her answer came very affectionately, “I have been living here for decades, and it has never been that obvious in normal times; needless to mention during some renovation works!”

Her words were validating. Her pure heart built a rapport instantly as if she was caressing my soul! I couldn’t help but admire her for who she is as a person. She spent at least 10 minutes walking with me in all directions before finding the right indication, and 5 more minutes to reach my train platform. When she was about to go, I thanked her so warmly and asked whether I could hug her! She smiled beautifully and said, “What a question! Come over here!”

She made my day with her generous and light heart! I wear a peaceful smile whenever I go, and I feel always fulfilled by the impact it has on strangers. That day, I was pissed off. I met a woman who was anything but principled. Ironically, she works in the self-development industry and pretends to help others. You guessed right: she is one of many imposters who merely followed some training and who sadly use desperate folks who crave feeling better about themselves.

Since it is a topic I deeply care about, I was in my mind reviewing all the inconsistencies I observed. My heart was heavy and bleeding for all the “mentees” who could be fooled by this individual’s services.

I am pretty sure she is exclusively relying on mapping the positive affirmations whenever she feels off balance. Her behavior was screaming how insecure and selfish she is. That was ugly to witness. Should you be interested, I explored the topic in detail here.

More to the point, meeting my friend in the station and enjoying the pure moment of presence and connection with her made my heart dance and myself relieved from the weight of the unpleasant meeting. I will never forget her!

The dessert

I was hosted by a couple of lovely Swedish friends. I was in the supermarket to buy some groceries, and I wanted to add some dessert to the list for extra pleasure!

I was in the dedicated section doing my best to read the descriptions of the products. Most of them were written in the local language. I don’t speak Swedish. You can guess how difficult it was for me to make my choice! There was a woman around. She was also a customer. I asked her whether she could help me understand the description of a specific dessert. She said gently, “Sure, let me wear my glasses!” She didn’t read one description, but all the products on display descriptions! She even started telling me about the history of each dessert and why one could be a better fit than another one.

I felt embarrassed and didn’t stop expressing my gratitude! When she made sure I had all that I needed, she was ready to leave and wished me a fantastic stay! I told her how amazing she was and thanked her again. Those were her last words (I will never forget this kind soul, neither):

I am only your mirror, young lady!

The woman in the bus station

It was another Saturday in Sweden. My hosts had to do some work in their old son’s apartment. They asked me to make better use of my day, and I listened to their advice.

I was sitting in the bus station next to their place and reading an article on my smartphone. A woman in the middle age showed up. She checked the panel displaying the schedules and asked me a question in Swedish. I smiled at her and specified I was a tourist. She apologized friendly and let me know she was wondering whether I saw her bus (I forgot the number) go by, to which I answered, “Yes, one minute ago, unfortunately”.

Her facial expression was showing how annoyed she was, given the next bus would not come before 30 minutes. I couldn’t let her sink into her anxiety, so I started talking to her. It was anything but those small talks which don’t open any door to a heartfelt or insightful discussion!

We were so immersed in our delightful exchanges that I didn’t pay attention to my bus. She felt sorry, but it wasn’t, in any case, her fault, which I didn’t miss to mention! She asked me about my destination and advised I can take her bus as a workaround. When the bus arrived, she looked at her watch, and the shock on her face was obvious. It was funny to observe. “What’s wrong?”, I asked her while smiling.

I can barely believe the 30 min are over! Thanks for being a light in an often dim world!

Last thoughts

I know that there are terrible people out there, but listen! I also know that there are people who stop and smile at tiny plants growing out of sidewalk cracks. People who laugh so loud they snort. People who compliment others randomly. People who take pictures of their friends because they love seeing their friends happy. People who ramble about things that they’re passionate about. People who blush and stutter. People who are kind. People who are warm. People who love and love and love and love.

—Unknown

I can’t find better than this exquisite quote as a closure to this piece. You never know how your free acts of kindness can impact a person’s soul. Sometimes, it can last for a lifetime, and they will treasure the souvenir of your pure moment of full presence and generosity in their heart.

Be the melody people would love to dance on, the sunshine people would love to lay under, the breeze people would love to feel on their face, the sunset in front of which people would love to stand motionless!

Myriam Ben Salemhttps://unleashgreatness.blogspot.com/
I am deeply passionate about everything life has to offer. Writing has been my very favorite means to educate my audience, captivate their attention, talk to their emotions, and make them relate and take action. I have been honored by working as a columnist for BIZCATALYST 360°, an Award-Winning life, culture, and biz new media digest, serving as the global hub for enhanced performance and well-being, during 2020. Also, I am a contributing author in Mayhem to Miracles: True Stories of Courage, Triumph, and Peace. I am so in love with writing that I have a peaceful smile drawn on my face whenever I start visualizing the books I will be writing for whoever will be tempted to discover an inclusive philosophy breaking with all the stigmas! I was born in Tunisia, a small country in North Africa. I did pretty much everything earlier than the average: walking, talking, singing, dancing. Promoted throughout my entire education, I was also the leader of every end-of-year party. At some point, after working several years for multinational companies as an engineer, team leader, project coordinator, and product owner while always being a top performer, I figured out I was feeling miserable despite the 'perfect external image'. That marked the starting point of an existential crisis followed by an episode that triggered my re-birth and the beginning of the most rewarding adventure of my whole existence: re-writing my subconscious program and reconnecting with my true self. I was saved at the last moment through an out-of-body experience making me see all the lies, realize this gigantic Universe was not revolving around me. Most importantly, I was able to visualize I was here to leave a legacy like all of you, no matter how big or small! The butterfly took time to emerge though. Today, I identify myself as a Universal Citizen. Like-minded and light-hearted people are what I call home. I am deeply passionate about everything life has to offer, and was granted the edutainer qualifier: a combination between education and entertainment! I educate on the importance of healing unsuspected traumas, seeing our limiting beliefs and biases with honest lenses, finding one's purpose and a principled mission that goes beyond the self, and unleashing the hidden potential so that to leave our legacy for the generations unborn. I have been using a panoply of means that could vary from explicit ones such as mentorship, speaking, and writing, a skill that emerged naturally during my self-actualization process to implicit mediums like storytelling, how I daily show up in the world and model servant leadership! Writing is my very favorite and most preferred tool deployed for my mission. The topics I explore are in the nexus of stoic philosophy, psychology, neuroplasticity, epigenetics, and pretty much any topic involving human behavior. Common denominator? The quality of the subconscious program. You may have a look at some of my works published on my website; Set Yourself Free.

1 COMMENT

  1. Wow! This is so full of the positive outlook we need to hear more of Myriam.
    It was a sheer pleasure to read and find hope in as well. There are days we feel less lift in our step and after reading this, I feel less heavy and able to lift higher. It is this kind of humanity that keeps us stronger and is the fuel needed to keep us running.

    We meet others, and many strangers…and one single interaction can stand out amongst the mundane! This is powerful to say the least.
    Thank you for sharing this my sister. I’m in a better mood after reading this too.

    Love all the quotes, but this line…” I am only your mirror, young lady!” I love this! What a great feeling that ignites🙏🙏❤️
    Bless you and hugs to you Myriam, “Your heart reflects the love we need and receive” 🙏❤️

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