What Advice Would I Give During These Particular Times?

What do you think the origin of the countries is? It is nothing but an evolution of the tribes. Why were the tribes created? To protect the exploited land and kill any individual who could even think of approaching the territory and share the land’s resources. What was the fuel? Fear and the scarcity mentality. In modern times, the same principles apply. Plus, it is way easier to control people who are afraid of each other.

More to the point, this is the advice I would give:

Open your heart and listen to the universe message. Wake up. Be honest with yourself and admit your responsibility.

Taking one’s responsibility to change what we were not responsible for creating in the first place — our subconscious program — is probably the highest level of strength and wisdom!

Start the homework. It will be painful. If not, it is ineffective and definitely reversible. Don’t get trapped into positive affirmations. They would work for a while until some trauma would happen; simply because your ingrained limiting beliefs would override them. They could also work forever if no major incident occurs.

Does this mean you could unbecome the filter through your mapping and reconnect with the servant leader you originally were? Definitely not. It only means you will forever live in the shadow of this great being.

Be aware that the pain is triggered by two elements:

  • Meeting your demons and realizing how much your program is biased,
  • The fierce resistance of your sick ego. It is legitimate frankly; even this one if not ready to die.

Be bold enough to stay with this pain because you can. The most important detail to always bear in mind is that you are *not* your false self, that all your insecurities, meanness, jealousy, envy, your tendency to complain, judge, label, make assumptions, seek only to be understood, etc… are nothing but the product of your program you never wrote in the first place.

When you start the real transformational adventure, make sure to be armed with self-compassion. You will need it to forgive yourself for all the harm you unintentionally caused to everybody around you. I believe in your ability to do so. Now it is your turn. You deserve freedom and owe it to yourself!

Last but not least, this investment in yourself in terms of time and energy will be the most rewarding one of your whole existence. It will not only benefit you but everybody else.

Your Center is the foundation of your love manifestation. If your Center is your children, the love that manifests from it will mostly benefit your children. If your Center is the ‘Principles’, the manifestation of your love will benefit the Universe.

With love, Myriam

Myriam Ben Salem
Myriam Ben Salemhttps://unleashgreatness.blogspot.com/
I am deeply passionate about everything life has to offer. Writing has been my very favorite means to educate my audience, captivate their attention, talk to their emotions, and make them relate and take action. I have been honored by working as a columnist for BIZCATALYST 360°, an Award-Winning life, culture, and biz new media digest, serving as the global hub for enhanced performance and well-being, during 2020. Also, I am a contributing author in Mayhem to Miracles: True Stories of Courage, Triumph, and Peace. I am so in love with writing that I have a peaceful smile drawn on my face whenever I start visualizing the books I will be writing for whoever will be tempted to discover an inclusive philosophy breaking with all the stigmas! I was born in Tunisia, a small country in North Africa. I did pretty much everything earlier than the average: walking, talking, singing, dancing. Promoted throughout my entire education, I was also the leader of every end-of-year party. At some point, after working several years for multinational companies as an engineer, team leader, project coordinator, and product owner while always being a top performer, I figured out I was feeling miserable despite the 'perfect external image'. That marked the starting point of an existential crisis followed by an episode that triggered my re-birth and the beginning of the most rewarding adventure of my whole existence: re-writing my subconscious program and reconnecting with my true self. I was saved at the last moment through an out-of-body experience making me see all the lies, realize this gigantic Universe was not revolving around me. Most importantly, I was able to visualize I was here to leave a legacy like all of you, no matter how big or small! The butterfly took time to emerge though. Today, I identify myself as a Universal Citizen. Like-minded and light-hearted people are what I call home. I am deeply passionate about everything life has to offer, and was granted the edutainer qualifier: a combination between education and entertainment! I educate on the importance of healing unsuspected traumas, seeing our limiting beliefs and biases with honest lenses, finding one's purpose and a principled mission that goes beyond the self, and unleashing the hidden potential so that to leave our legacy for the generations unborn. I have been using a panoply of means that could vary from explicit ones such as mentorship, speaking, and writing, a skill that emerged naturally during my self-actualization process to implicit mediums like storytelling, how I daily show up in the world and model servant leadership! Writing is my very favorite and most preferred tool deployed for my mission. The topics I explore are in the nexus of stoic philosophy, psychology, neuroplasticity, epigenetics, and pretty much any topic involving human behavior. Common denominator? The quality of the subconscious program. You may have a look at some of my works published on my website; Set Yourself Free.