The Freedom of Selflessness

As our human world has been pushed to move forward in awareness, more and more people are changing their question from “Who am I” to “What am I” and eventually into a no “I” at all.

A series of events led me one morning to receive this take on that.

When we are little, we hardly understand the world around us but are very sensitive to feelings from others, we pick up on mom and dad’s beliefs, emotions, and even their stories. As we feel them, we THINK these are ours. Because these are unanswered thoughts, our Ego Mind gets activated. This is what most of us call “I”.

The EM cannot think for itself. It doesn’t invent, or know what is about to happen, it only projects what it sees/feels. See the Ego Mind as an overhead projector with a glass, on which we ourselves write down what we have perceived from an early age on, thinking that what we felt or saw around us, is the truth.

“I am not seen”
“I am unlovable”
“I am not good enough”
“I am not good at that” … etc.

That what we write down (I am not good enough) on the glass of the overhead projector, is being projected on the wall (read: into our reality). Others see that message on the wall, and when they are in that same unresolved energy, will mirror this back to us and respond in the same way.

As everything is energy we will also attract OR SEE similar circumstances that will give us that feeling of unworthiness.  I say SEE, as we are looking through the glasses of let’s say “unworthy” we will not see the ones sending love to us, but only the ones who show our unworthiness. Like when you are thinking about buying a Ford Mustang, you suddenly see them everywhere.

Whether it’s people or circumstance it doesn’t matter. ‘We’ will have our self-fulfilled prophecy. “See? I am unworthy, unloved, not good enough.”

At some point, I realized “We Are All That Is!” We are all part of the oneness. Therefore, all these people and circumstances are ALL part of the oneness and created by the Universe too! When I asked with what purpose, the answer was: “They are here to help us expand and heal the human consciousness. (THE reason why we are here).”

So how many selves are there?

1. As said before the “I” that we use is actually the Subconscious Mind or EGO Mind. A hard disk where all memories, believes disappointments, fears, nontruths (from ourselves and those around us) are being stored. Unless it is cleared, it gets activated by someone or an event (in order to clear and heal human consciousness). Ego takes all it can from the shelves and drawers from the past to prove it is right! It feels hurt, triggered, betrayed, left alone etc, as it believes that what it wrote down on the glass of the overhead projector is the truth. By responding from this space, chances are huge, the EM of the other gets activated as well. This will keep us stuck in the human unconsciousness loop. (There are some amazing examples of this on the news) 😉

Self 2 Our Conscious Awareness.
If this Self is behind the wheel, it sees that someone betrays us, but it is aware of the Ego Mind from itself and the other and decides not to respond. Rather it starts meditating or reading awareness books, signing up for a training, asking questions to TrueSelf (Self3) to get through this. This ‘self’ is also the one that now reads this article, perhaps writes, does home play, cooks dinner, learns how to walk, pees on the toilet instead of in the hallway, learns a language etc.

Self 3 is what some call The Soul, the infinite self, or Super Conscious. The All Knower, the knower of where you have been, what your path is, where you are going, who will fit you as it will help you move forward. It’s your inner guiding system, your TOMTOM navigation. It’s the one most connected to SOURCE, The Universe, and therefore has access to all solutions, sees the root causes of our issues, makes inventions, predicts certain outcomes, etc.

It’s you, you and you, yourself!

I often hear people say they hate their ego as it sabotages all that is good and is messing up your life. And for a long time, I thought it too. But this belief keeps us stuck in a victim mode.

As everything is coming from the same source, all with the same goal to heal human consciousness and experience heaven within, we ARE nature! We ARE Source! We ARE the Universe itself in ALL its forms! Therefore Ego Mind is NOT the boogie man who creates a shitty life for you. It’s you, you and you, yourself! 😉 All of it! You are the Ego, the SCM, the Super Conscious, Source, the Universe! And at the same time, you are none of them. As there is no self. No “I”. Only beingness. Of that what is.

Therefore, the word “Self” itself is a nontruth. Again; we are The Universe experiencing itself in many forms. Some forms we call tree, the ocean, a flower, a woodlice. One of these forms we call human, but there is no “I”.

Realizing we are all of it, as all is part of the oneness, is perhaps one of the biggest liberations you can give to yourself. As you are freeing yourself from the concept that there is a you, that is the victim of Ego. YOU ARE THE EGO! As you are all that is. You are just not what you have written down. Those were beliefs, not truths.

“Then why do I feel so shitty, sad, angry, triggered, a loser, not lovable, unworthy, disappointed, betrayed, afraid sometimes?”
I asked.

The answer that appeared was: “Because most humans give the SCM too much attention. We live in a society in which education, books, films, art, songs, posts on Facebook, the News, World Photo Expos, talks with our friends, family, phone calls, WhatsApp, Facebook messenger are often about what takes place in the “me-world”. The SCM. BELIEVING that what is in the SCM is true! And because it isn’t true, our body (created by that same source of light, love, and truth) gives us a heavy response with adrenaline, heart racing, hot flashes, pain, tears, a thick throat, to show us in NEON signs “This is NOT TRUE!!!”

The EGO and Body work together to help us wake up and see where there is a non-truth. To be aware of it is when we step into self 2 (conscious awareness), see the root cause of the non-truth, and find our way back to becoming selflessness again.
Love, Eyra

Song: “Where Are You Now” is about the discovery of self, eventually leading to freedom in the knowing there is no self at all.


Eyra Moon
Eyra Moon
Eyra Moon has a tremendous fascination and deeply felt connection to our universe. Her journey in discovering the law of the Universe, the words we use, the believes we embedded as our own that create our reality, reflect back in her work through Great Talks, Music, Videos, Film, Articles, and connecting with Your True Self. In all these forms, she invites you to go on a journey with her. To go within and feel. To reconnect with what we truly are; the Universe experiencing itself through You. Being Truth and Love and bringing that into every situation and encounter with other beings. The more we connect to our source self and leave from this space, the more we can start creating a world from the freedom, love, abundance, and serenity that we are.

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