Take Control of Your Life: Get Rid of the Clutter

Business Edge-smart growth strategies-marciaby Marcia Zidle, Columnist & Featured Contributor

We’ve all got those filing cabinets or drawers filled with stuff we can’t bear to throw away or look at—items that seem simultaneously useless and important.”

[su_dropcap style=”flat”]T[/su_dropcap]HAT OPENS the Fast Company Article: The Psychology Behind All That Clutter You Can’t Get Rid Of.

When was the last time you examined everything in your home; not just the closets, but the garage, the cabinets, the boxes that hadn’t been open since your last move?

Well I did this summer. The last weekend in May, Dallas experienced torrential rainstorms. I woke up in the middle of the night and saw streams of water gushing through my house. Later that day, a disaster recovery company packed our entire household that would go into storage until the home repairs were completed.

Six weeks later, they returned with over 100 boxes and all our furniture. The good news: Since the water was only a couple of inches, most of our things were salvable. The bad news was we had to unpack all those boxes and put things back in place. I dreaded it… it seemed so overwhelming.

clutterThen Something Interesting Happened.
First, I found stuff that I hadn’t seen in years. Instead of immediately putting these things away, I took the time to relish what I remembered about them. I discovered papers and pictures that brought both tears and smiles. For example, there was a letter from my mother-in-law to my mother on the birth of their first grandchild – our oldest daughter.

I also found a notebook of my speeches for a Toastmasters group when I lived in Stavanger Norway. My ice-breaker speech was an identity box with objects that represented who I was then as a person. It made me pause and ask myself who am I today? Am I different than the person I was twenty five years ago? What has changed in my life?

Second, I realized how much stuff my family had accumulated over the years. Some were mementoes from the years we lived overseas and traveled. That was what I would call the “important stuff”. But there was also the stuff that I asked myself, “Why in the world am I keeping this?”

Instead of putting these things back on the shelves or in the closet or garage where they had been, I decided to “declutter” – to shed stuff I no longer needed or wanted. It turned out to be an easier process then I imagined. In fact it was liberating as I filled one big black plastic bag after another. And it gave me more space – hopefully not to be filled up again with new stuff.

Third, for the stuff I was keeping, I had to decide whether to place things back where they had been situated or to change things around. Did I want the rooms to stay the way they were before the flood or to have a new look? Could the furniture be rearranged? What about the books and knickknacks on the on the shelves? How about organizing my closets differently?

This gave me the opportunity to bring newness to my home without the expense of extensive remodeling. For example, changing the placement of pictures in the living room and adding some plants gave it a whole new feel. I then started to think if there are things I need to rearrange in my life.

What Will Bring It Freshness – A New Sense Of Jest And Joy?
I’m still in the process of figuring that out. However, one area that I realized is weighing me down, = are the professional and civic volunteer commitments I’ve made. What I enthusiastically said yes to five years ago or even last year, may not be a key priority for me today. I don’t necessarily want to shed these obligations but rather re-arrange my responsibilities to get freshness back in my life.

Finally I’ve realized that de-cluttering is a continual process. That’s because one’s life will always be changing – whether we want it to or not. So don’t wait for a flood or other catastrophe to examine your life and decide how you want to live it. To get a less stressed more balanced life, regularly ask yourself these questions:

  • Am I different than the person I was twenty five years ago? What has changed in my life?
  • What’s the “important stuff”.in my life? What I’m I keeping that I no longer need or want
  • How can I re-arrange my life to bring it freshness – a new sense of jest and joy?

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Marcia Zidle
Marcia Zidle
Marcia Zidle, The Smart Moves Coach, is a national known board certified coach and keynote leadership speaker who guides organizations that are planning, or in the midst of, ambitious growth and change. As a career strategist, she works with professionals, managers and executives who want to build • shape • brand • change • vitalize their careers. She’s been selected by LinkedIn’s ProFinder as one of the best coaches for 2016!Her clients range from private owned businesses to mid-market companies to professional service firms to NGO’s. With 25 years of management, business consulting and international experience, she brings an expertise in executive and team leadership; employee engagement and innovation; personal and organization change; career building and development; emotional and social intelligence. Your Future Starts Now With Marcia!

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  1. Macia, this article is spot on. I’m sorry for the catastrophe that gave you incentive for analyzing and clearing out what no longer represents you. But thank you for telling your story. I have recently gone through an entire fiing cabinet and cleared out boxes of work I had done and was keeping for reference in case I wanted to use it for articles or to put together a portfolio of samples for somene. If I ever need it oh well. I need to do that with other areas of my home. Your article made me realize that sooner rather than later is when I should use your thought starters to decide what needs to go. The time is now. No floods necessary.