Seduction (Part 3): Why Do People Think “Seduction” is So Black and White?

Oftentimes when people hear the word Seduction they have an immediate knee-jerk reaction to it and its connotation.  There are many factors that determine your association with the word Seduction, depending on where you grew up, when you grew up, and how you feel about sensuality, and much more.  I think this is why people can tend to oversimplify the word Seduction and make it a very black and white subject.  Like many things in life, our context toward them is what brings them to life and creates richness for us. The world of Seduction is no different.  Once you start to look at the art of Seduction in a new way… things suddenly take on a new shape.


Seduction (Part 2): Mae West – They Call Her the “Subversive Agitator”

For the purposes of my book, blog, courses, and whatever else I might be up to… one thing always stays the same.  The notion that Seduction is not only a means for an end to S.E.X. but also a way of looking at the world through a new lens.

Seduction = Persuasion

Persuasion leaves a lot more open to discussion versus only leading someone toward S.E.X.  There are nuances, tactics, and techniques that create Seduction as a Second Language.  Once you are able to speak the language of Seduction…. Things take on a whole new meaning.  The more open we are to experiencing the many facets of Seduction the more beneficial and useful these skills become.

When people look at the world through only a black and white lens or a ‘thing or that’ kind of lens, life can be very boring, one-sided, and not as effective.

But when you start to look at the world through the eyes of a great Seducer you suddenly see things aren’t as black and white as they first appeared.

It’s like watching an old Hollywood movie in black and white, if you aren’t used to watching films in black and white, it can take some time for your mind and eyes to adjust to this new experience.  But once you finally do adjust to this new/old world of black and white and can settle into the experience, you notice how good the dialogue is or what great scenery, costumes, or sound they used to create dramatic effects without all the fancy technology we take for granted today.

The same thing can be said for the art of Seduction.  Once you take a step back and realize to what extent these skills can be used in your day-to-day life; the sooner things go from black and white to technicolor….

So why not go for a ride into the world of Seduction?  I will be your guide every step of the way…

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Melissa Van Oss
Melissa Van Oss
Melissa Van Oss is a MidWest transplant to Washington, D.C. She embraced city life becoming involved in a private underground world that few see inside of, she pushed past her own fears, insecurities, and barriers, and came out the other side transformed into a confident, adventurous spirit… she awoke her aura of Seduction. Melissa is a three-time bestselling author, speaker, human relations strategist, and scholar. She is the author of the Seduction as a Second Language Series. Melissa uses her experiences in the world of Seduction to help others understand Seduction As A Second Language and how it translates into more confidence from the bedroom to the boardroom. When viewed as an intellectual pursuit, understanding Seduction will lead you down a path toward personal transformation, evolution, and higher consciousness. There is a difference between social Seduction and seducing someone in our personal relationships, Melissa shares how to tell the difference between them and how to use them to your advantage. Melissa has been interviewed for Life Altering Experiences on Roku TV as well as being featured in The Hollywood Times. She has also been a guest on the podcasts - “What Every Business Needs to Know Right Now,” “Analytical Chaos,” and “The Guy Who Knows a Guy.” She also recently spoke at the Monetize Your Matter Summit. She works with individuals, high-level executives, entrepreneurs, as well as former professional athletes. Melissa has collaborated on the creation of several live events and spoken at numerous workshops. The Indie film in which Melissa was a consultant won numerous awards as well. Van Oss attended Kent State University, where she graduated with honors with a Bachelor of Science degree. She currently lives in Washington, D.C.