The idea of Seduction has, sadly, lost a lot of its meaning in today’s modern world. The idea of Seduction used to be something that was celebrated, understood, and appreciated by both men and women. Seduction is an elegant game that has way more to do with intellectual stimulation than the naked flesh blasted out via a text message or a dating app. However, in today’s instant gratification world, people go from hello to the bedroom in two seconds flat. This gives no room for the art of Seduction to play out to full ability.
Seduction is like a beautiful dance between two people… timing is important, communication, understanding, and looking toward each other for guidance and where to follow.
If you are constantly stepping on your partner’s toes, it doesn’t take long for your shoes to get scuffed and both people leave in a huff.
I think one of the quickest ways to get into a more Seduction mindset and see things from the art form that it truly is by watching old Hollywood movies. They knew everything was there to know about the art of Seduction and then some. And if you think about it for a moment, I’m sure you will agree, that no detail was too small to pay attention to.
Whether it be the perfect strappy shoe the woman wore, her garters, the ambiance created by light and shadows, or the witty dialogue between the men and women that makes you see how attractive a mind can be. The list goes on and on.
What makes these old Hollywood movies so Seductive is everything listed above, PLUS the little things like- how the women would give that little glance to the man and you knew exactly what it meant, how they moved their body when they walked, or even how they held a champagne glass. These little nuances are the very things that build that spark when you are beginning to create a Seductive scene or experience for somebody.
The more you ‘hold back’ with being mysterious, teasing, and playful, the better. It’s far more Seductive to be mysterious to someone than for them to know everything about you too fast and get bored. Part of the fun of the chase… is the chase… The anticipation, exhilaration, and fun of the chase are what make it one of the most desirable parts of the initial attraction phase of our relationships.
Yet we are currently at a time in a place where there are far too many people who think that in order to be seductive to someone, you need to send them a naked picture or pictures where you are barely wearing any clothes. WRONG! In fact, the less skin you show, the more desirous it becomes to someone else. When you understand that, “LESS IS MORE”, you will start to be on the right path.
I challenge you to think about Seduction as an art form. You are an artist and you have everything you need at your disposal to create great Seductive works of art. Be bold, authentic, mysterious, coy, passionate, fun, creative, lustful… whatever you want.
Be that. That’s the beauty of being the artist, the muse, and the canvas. ;) How can you become a more Seductive artist today?