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Mindfulness During The Global And Economic Crisis

It began a few weeks ago while working with clients as the stock market was crashing and the coronavirus was sweeping the world. Many of my clients were on the edge of their seats, eyes darting about as if expecting a monster to jump out from nowhere and attack them.

We are wired to look for danger and an approaching attack; however, this monster is invisible.

Last week, I noticed there were three primary reactions to this crisis. In the first camp were those who were aware, stayed calm and took action to take precautions. The second camp were those who chose to stay in denial about a virus that could be potentially lethal. And finally, and apparently in a large majority, were those who began to panic and take rash actions like cleaning out the market of all the toilet paper and hand sanitizers, leaving the shelves empty.

Panic creates more panic. Staying calm, centered and grounded can create more calm.

One client asked me with fear in his voice, “What are we going to do?” I took in a deep breath while I looked into his fearful eyes. Here is what I told him. First, take a long, deep breath, and when you exhale, allow the tension in your body to leave and relax. I asked him to breathe slowly with me, and on each exhale, I reminded him to calm his mind down and pay attention to his breath. In one minute, we had taken five breaths together and he was noticeably calmer. All it took was a one-minute breathing session to calm him down. Now that he was calmer, I felt I could talk to him about staying centered and grounded. Panic creates more panic. Staying calm, centered and grounded can create more calm. It is a choice how we are going to react to a crisis, and our choices can be both powerful and contagious, just like the virus.

Mindfulness is about many things, but one is managing your emotions.

Noticing what you are feeling but not immediately acting on those emotions is important, as it can keep you from making rash actions, like those who hoarded toilet paper; they were reacting from their panic and acted irrationally. They felt threatened and went immediately into survival mode, not thinking about their neighbor. When we feel threatened, we experience an amygdala hijack where there is a chemical reaction in the brain that shuts down accessing the logical, reasoning function part of the brain. And for good reason. If a tiger walks into the room, we are supposed to take action instead of sitting around discussing what we are going to do about the tiger.

I explained this to my client, who is at the C-suite level of his organization. I impressed upon him the importance of adopting a mindfulness practice and how it can bring awareness to responding automatically, giving him a moment to stop and choose a different response. By developing this practice, by remaining calm, he will make better decisions and can guide others in his organization to remain calm, and, like a cascading waterfall, the entire organization can stay calm and productive and assess problems that arise in a rational and logical manner.

In addition to remaining calm and breaking automatic behavioral patterns, a mindfulness practice can boost your immune system.

Stress and panic lower immunity, and you can become more susceptible to any virus. With the coronavirus, all of us have been advised about avoiding touching our faces with unwashed hands. Touching our faces is an automatic impulse. Mindfulness brings awareness to impulses and creates space for you to not act on those impulses. Using your breath, you can sustain the need to act and instead observe, giving space to move past the impulse.

We are also advised to isolate ourselves in various ways, through staying at home and/or keeping our distance from another person. Through mindfulness, we can stay connected. There are many online meditation communities where you can meditate with others and receive a quick acknowledgment from someone saying, “Thanks for meditating with me.” Instead of a phone call, use Zoom, Skype or FaceTime to connect and share a three-minute breathing exercise together, then share how you feel afterward. In this way, you are staying calm and connected.

Other benefits to a mindfulness practice in addition to remaining calm in a crisis are:

• Increased focus

• Increased clarity

• Increased creativity (being creative helps with depression and can lead to unthought-of-before solutions to grave situations)

• Improved communication

• Lower stress

• Improved decision-making

• Greater self-awareness of your triggers

Throughout the day, return to a one-minute breathing exercise to stop racing thoughts and to ground and center yourself. During times of uncertainty and facing unknowns, each of us can be a leader for others in remaining calm during this pandemic.

This article originally appeared on Forbes and is featured here with author permission.


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Melinda Fouts, Ph.D.
Melinda Fouts, Ph.D.http://www.successstartswithyou.net/
Melinda Fouts, Ph. D., International Executive Coach, Psychotherapist is a select Columnist & Featured Contributor for BIZCATALYST 360° and a Member of the Forbes Coaches Council (comprised of Top coaches offering insights on leadership development & careers), and founder of Success Starts with You. She was recently chosen to receive the Empowered Woman of the Year Award for 2021 given by the International Association of Top Professionals (IAOTP). She also received the honor as the top international coach of the year in 2020 by the IAOTP. She provides visionary leadership in her field and her many credentials prove she has the ability to empower women worldwide. Her exemplary role as a female professional in a male-dominated industry displays her influence, capability, and proficiency. Inclusion with the International Association of Top Professionals (IAOTP) is an honor in itself, only a few women are chosen for this distinction based on their years of experience, professional accomplishments, academic achievements, leadership abilities, and contributions to their communities. With innovation and compassion, these women empower others to reach their goals, while creating change for future generations. With over 2 decades of professional experience as a business coach and psychotherapist, Dr. Fouts has proven herself as an accomplished professional and expert in the field. As a dynamic, results-driven leader, Dr. Fouts has demonstrated success not only as an Executive Business Coach, but in every role she has held. Prior to executive coaching and leadership development, Melinda has been in private practice as a psychotherapist for over 20 years. She leverages her strengths and insights from her psychology background to help leaders and managers in transition through increased self-awareness. Owner and founder of Success Starts with You, is based upon the premise that you are already successful. Increasing self-awareness to increase emotional intelligence and unlocking blind spots are paramount to continued success. Dr. Fouts leverages her strengths and insights from her psychology background to help leaders and managers in transition through increased self-awareness and discovering their blind spots. It can be lonely at the top and as a thought partner, she makes sure you are not alone. Dr. Fouts’ unique approach from other business coaches is that she helps get rid of thinking and behavioral patterns that tend to keep executives stuck. Her key areas of expertise include but are not limited to: small business consulting, enhancing emotional intelligence, self-awareness, unlocking fullest potential, brainstorming, identifying limitations, challenges, obstacles and optimizing performance. In addition, her successful career as a Psychotherapist and International Executive Business Coach, Dr. Fouts is a sought-after speaker whose key-note address to Women’s Leadership Conferences is Channeling Feminine Power in the Face of Adversity. Her newly released book, Cognitive Enlightenment, was to be presented at the London Book Fair, March 2020, the NY Book Fair, May 2020, and the Frankfurt Book Fair in October 2020 until COVID hit. Melinda received her Ph.D. in Jungian Psychology from Saybrook University and her Masters in Psychology from Pacifica University. Melinda has worked as a consultant with executives and businesses for over 20 years. As a result of her experience and studies, she has developed a unique craft to fine-tune leadership development for peak performance. She lives in Colorado with her big, beautiful dog, Stryder. For more information on Dr. Fouts please visit: www.successstartswithyou.net

6 COMMENTS

  1. As I have already written in other posts, I think that the leader of the time of the coronavirus is, first of all, a resilient leader, who takes care of his collaborators, and is also involved in their personal and family matters. Provides exhaustive and transparent communications, which authentically manifest gratitude towards every action, every idea, every feedback, even if negative. That creates a climate in which one trusts each other, recognizing the specialist skills of each one, welcoming feedback as an opportunity for improvement, measures what happens, in a meticulous way and redirects sharing decisions based on facts.
    But he is also a leader who maintains a high sense of humor: making fun of himself, accepting mistakes, joking about pressure, exorcising the fear of contagion, means creating teams in which people, although physically tired and in some cases seriously worried, they manage to give their best with a great sense of responsibility.
    This is what needs to be done due to the need for reaction, speed, sense of urgency and responsibility.
    I believe that this could apply to any leader, entrepreneur or politician.

  2. Thank you, Dr. Melinda, for giving us such a welcoming insight into your mastery over practicing mindfulness! If I may, please allow me to add ‘Balanced Approach to Sudden Events’ as another significant benefit of the above practice. I was taught, since early childhood, to take a deep breath, count till ten, and then respond to a given challenge. The instant reaction brings forth unnecessary repentance. We see it happen more often than not.

    Considering the events of the past three months, I believe it is the calm and controlled decision-makers that exhibit a higher, much higher level of resilience compared to the ones with panic-driven mentality.

    Thanks once again, With Warm Regards, and A Prayer for All!

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