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In Search of Humanity: Time to Do More?

–The Choice is Yours

More Love (Understanding) Imagine a world where more people chose understanding and truth rather than reaction and conflict. But ultimately imagining it is not enough; it’s a good start, but we need to act. We need to live and engage in life from our hearts. Understanding creates a mental shift enabling us to replace reactive emotions and disconnection with compassion and connection. Understanding at its deepest level is just like love—an unconditional understanding of another’s humanness. We don’t have to know their story, but we can appreciate they’re going through the human experience, just like us.
More Mattering As humans, connection is the key to our contentment, happiness, sense of value, sense of belonging. Without it we’re floundering; chasing the next source of approval or self-worth or self-gratification. With a thoughtful note, a quick call, or a simple email you can tell someone near or far that they matter. As the saying goes, it’s the little things that mean the most. It’s a simple sentiment with the power to encourage, uplift, and vanquish loneliness. 
More Observation (with Detachment) Detachment is the basis of our ability to be positive and affectionate with others while we interact with them. The inner art of detached observation is the ability to separate ourselves from our own thoughts, emotions, attitudes, and behavior. On the external level, the art of detached observation is the art of being witness to the scenes that take place around us. While we detach ourselves and observe how the game of life develops, without being active participants, we are able to see the “big picture” with greater clarity.
More Perseverance It’s about being determined to keep on going in the face of setbacks and challenges. It is that inner drive that keeps you in the game when everything else says it’s time to quit. Perseverance is the staying power to follow through and exert effort until the end to achieve your goals, dreams, and vision. You may not know for sure when you’ll get there or what you will discover along the way, but perseverance will ensure you keep going long enough to find out.
More Purpose True purpose is about recognizing your own gifts and using them to contribute to the world —whether those gifts are playing beautiful music for others to enjoy, helping friends solve problems, or simply bringing more joy into the lives of those around you. Genuine purpose points to the end of a self-absorbed, self-serving relationship to life. The equation for purpose is G + P + V = P. (gifts + passions + values = purpose)
More Reasoning Reasoning is our capacity to consciously make sense of things by applying logic and adapting based on new or existing information, and it is considered to be a distinguishing ability possessed by humans. Surrounded by so much information and misinformation, we need to apply critical thinking to rationally separate fact from fiction. Along the way, let us find the right balance between thinking and feeling.
More Respect Ask yourself, “How am I showing up today, and do I like who I am and what I’m modeling as my core values and behaviors? Eliminating active disrespect—such as rude, insulting, or devaluing words or behaviors—doesn’t create respect. Respect is an action: we show respect, we act respectfully, we speak with respect. The absence of disrespect doesn’t have the same positive impact in resolving disagreement, conflict, or tension as does the presence of respect.
More Sanity Recognize that almost all humans aren’t perfectly rational all the time, nor motivated to change the world nor themselves for the better. Focus on what’s in your control. While changing the world may not be in your control, you can certainly control how you act, how you react, how you operate, and how you cooperate. Maintain your sanity by accepting reality, taking positive steps every single day, maintaining realistic expectations. And always be grateful for progress, no matter what.
More Service How often do we think, “What will I accomplish today?” or “What will the day bring for me?”, nothing at all wrong with these questions. But what if we woke up every morning and instead said, “How may I serve today?” What would open up for us, and others, if we commit to making things happen around this intention?
More Sustainability Sustainability focuses on meeting the needs of the present without compromising the ability of future generations to meet their needs. The concept of sustainability is composed of three pillars: economic, environmental, and social—also known informally as profits, planet, and people. Let’s Walk.  Let’s Plant.  Let’s Recycle.  Let’s unplug devices.  Let’s compost.  Let’s donate.  Let’s advocate for the environment.  Let’s eat local.  Let’s borrow or fix.   Let’s lower our thermostat.  Let’s buy products with less packaging. Let’s simply do more with less.
More Trust Trustworthiness has two components­–doing the right things and doing things right. It’s the foundation of respect. Tell the truth, be open and thoughtful, and have the courage to do the right thing even when it’s not easy.
More Uprooting of Racism & Inequality At its core, racism is a powerful system that creates false hierarchies of human value; its warped logic extends beyond race, from the way we regard people of different ethnicities or skin colors to the way we treat people of different sexes, gender identities, and body types. Racism intersects with class and culture and geography and even changes the way we see and value ourselves. Let’s focus on all forms of racism clearly, understand their poisonous consequences, and work to oppose them in our systems and in ourselves.
More Virtue By definition, virtue is the moral excellence of a person. Morally excellent people have a character made-up of virtues valued as good. They do the right thing, and don’t bend to impulses, urges, or desires, but act according to values and principles. Virtues need to be cultivated to become more prevalent in life.
More Voices Many of us are familiar with the African proverb, “it takes a village to raise a child.” The truth is, it “takes a village” to achieve just about any meaningful change in our world—from fighting disease to uniting for peace. And not simply a village of like-minded people who already understand and embrace our quest for humanity, but fresh voices bringing new ideas, contrarian opinions. In our highly fragmented world, we know that the most effective change-makers inspire participation at a broader and deeper level.
More Vulnerability The best part of being human is being able to connect with other humans. We’re hardwired for it. We live in tribes and families, work in groups, love as couples, and thrive in friendships. Vulnerability is an openness to experiences, people, and uncertainty. Question your beliefs. Challenge whether or not they’re still working for you. What could happen if you open up, take a chance, let yourself be vulnerable? Vulnerability is the driving force of connection. It’s brave. It’s tender. It’s impossible to connect without it.

What More Can We Do?

Help us help you build the foundation for a better version of humanity. Of course, we can change the world by simply embracing the “butterfly effect”. The butterfly effect is the notion that a small change can make much bigger changes happen; one small incident can have a big impact on the future. … The term butterfly effect comes from an analogy where a butterfly flaps its wings in Tokyo and a tornado occurs in Tennessee.

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Dennis J. Pitocco
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48 COMMENTS

  1. Dennis this is a great article. It provokes thought. I would like to add that we also need to be able to pray to God to give us the strength to endure all that has happened. I believe that religion no matter who you pray to can help us as well. I know that God holds us in the palms of his hands and although we may have some doubts I know that he is listening to our prayers.

  2. Hi Dennis. This manifesto is worth every minute spent reading. If I may, I would put one more “brick” on our road we craft together. It is More Reasoning.
    For many things to do the right way and make the right decisions, we must think about them rationally. For me, critical thinking is very important in everyone’s life. Particularly in today’s world with too much information about any issue when many people fail in understanding and effectively making decisions about that issue, i.e. to separate facts from fiction and rumour from deliberate efforts to mislead.
    To find the right balance between thinking and feeling is challenging, to say the least.

  3. Dennis ~ A very inspiring post.
    The thought that leapt out to me is that for humanity to be “rediscovered” … HEARTS must be TRANSFORMED.
    “As I began to love myself, I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick. But as I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally. Today I call this connection “WISDOM-OF-THE-HEART.”~Charlie Chaplin

    Changing the world means changing people
    Changing people means changing human-hearts
    In truth:
    “It’s not about changing the world, although that’s what we seem to rally around. Rather, it’s about changing ourselves for that is the seed from which changing the world sprouts.” ― Craig D. Lounsbrough

    The “choice IS ours”
    Each day … each moment … we get to choose
    … which way we will go
    … which thoughts we will think
    … which words we will speak
    … the actions we will take
    … the habits we will form
    … the character which will define us
    … the things we will love

  4. Thank you, Dennis, for your ‘profoundly insightful’ message.

    I personally feel what you wrote about being PURPOSEFUL embodies everything else. Living purposefully is effortless living, which brings meaning and joy to everything we do and gives a greater sense of fulfillment upon the completion of each task.

    Leo Rosten, “The purpose of life is not to be happy – but to MATTER, to be productive, to be useful, to have it make some difference that you lived at all.”

    Shannon L Adler, “Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder. Help someone’s soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.”

    I also like what R. J. Andersson once said, “ Find a purpose to serve, not a lifestyle to live.”

    • Love your thoughts here, Jonathan – and particularly this quote that captures so much in so few words: “The purpose of life is not to be happy – but to MATTER, to be productive, to be useful, to have it make some difference that you lived at all.” … Thank you!

      • Thank you, Dennis. I was just re-reading your most insightful post and sharing some of its contents with a group involved with the Covid-19 crisis.
        Humankind is going through a new and unprecedented experience with the rapidly spreading Covid-19 pandemic and there is no doubt that the Covid-19 pandemic will change the face of human society, but it forces us to ask some important questions. The problem does not lie in Covid-19 alone but rather in the fear, panic and terror caused by the spread of this virus, and amplified by the media, which has been presenting the situation as if it were the end of the world. The current crisis is not of the pandemic alone. Rather, it is of the far-reaching consequences on human behavior.
        This is where ALL your insights listed in your article comes into full and direct focus and what each of us can do with the time “entrusted” to us.

        May we each be empowered to do whatever good we can, while we still can.

        Mahatma Gandhi once said, “Live simply so that others may simply live.”

        Living a simple life brings peace of mind and removes some of the distractions of our life’s journey and creates a sense of freedom from the burden of unnecessary possessions.

        • Thank you, my friend. You said it so well here: “This is where ALL your insights listed in your article comes into full and direct focus and what each of us can do with the time “entrusted” to us.” Let us all spend more time simply “doing more” as the ripple effect will be powerful…

    • I love your quotes Jonathan. My favorite is Shannon’s which speaks to purpose over lifestyle (which you also provide a good quote for)

      “Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder. Help someone’s soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.” ~ Shannon Adler

      • Thank you, Fay. During these difficult times, Shannon Adler has encouraged us to indeed be a “Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder. Help someone’s soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.”

        This is the least we can be to others, for in helping heal others, we find the balm to heal ourselves.

    • I love your quotes Jonathan. My favorite is Shannon’s which speaks to purpose over lifestyle (which you also provide a good quote for)

      “Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder. Help someone’s soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.” ~ Shannon Adler

  5. This is a very inspiring article, Dennis & Team! Humanity 2.0 or 4.0 is what we need – an expanded potential that looks at the supply chain of humanity’s actions. There is always a reaction to action and many people are unaware of how the ripple effect spreads. Your network is a wonderful example of hope.

  6. I agree with all the incredible comments here – this is an amazing manifesto. But humans need a framework and incentives to move in the right direction. This environment is a perfect example. It’s easy to be conscious etc. when surrounded with the kind of people we have here. The bigger problem is how to create this supportive/encouraging/inspiring environment everywhere – how to create the platforms for systematic change where we can measure progress on a daily and even hourly basis. That’s what all this is heading toward … we need to learn more about the system we live in , human nature (our ego) – we need to understand how all these things work and how to hack the system so we can accelerate our development in the right direction.

    • Thank you for your kind words here, Josia, and for your broader wisdom shared. As we’ve discussed, we need more voices beyond the amazing “conscious community” of like-minded people gathered here. Love your notion of “hacking the system” to accelerate development in the right direction. It’s going to take some bold & brave moves to effect change “for good”. And we’re grateful to have you and your extraordinary wisdom of experience by our side each step of the way.

  7. Dennis, I have just spent the last 27 minutes reading your perfectly articulated article whose message is a powerful proverb for our day and every well supported response. I was going to write a lengthy agreement to, “At the same time, we need to ask for more from each person in our lives and in our relationships to make the world spin more smoothly. We need more from everyone who leads and is in a position of influence.” I can’t think of another point to make or words to say that haven’t already been proclaimed by the numerous comments already for the reading and pondering. Let me just say that the most powerful words in this thread are, “more walkin’, less talkin'”. Let’s do that.

  8. I’m not sure where to start here other than this piece is exceptional and provides a solid foundation for sure. These things you talk about, Dennis are so critical and the why’s of so much of what many people do. But there is space in our world and our everyday teachings to learn more and to expand our thinking. It is with this that we can take more gradual steps to embrace humanity more lovingly and compassionately.

    You have provided a runway from which we can take off, and one upon which to land also. Thank you for providing your insight and for causing me to stop, think, and reassess. Some day’s I feel like a wanderer, unsure of where to go or what to do next in these uncertain times. However, this helps. Thank you for being you, Dennis.

    • Grateful for your thoughts here, Laura. This article came to fruition during our 10-day sabbatical (a wonderful opportunity to step back, smell the roses, recharge, and quite frankly, rethink our approach to all that we do). While I began by keeping a journal of our thoughts, it ultimately morphed into this “road map” as such. Perhaps a case of good karma, but it unintentionally intersected with all the “rage & rhetoric” over the George Floyd incident and has created a wonderful groundswell of support for simply stepping up and “doing more” … In other words, less talkin’/more walkin’…

  9. I love this list Dennis.

    I especially like the self respect definition that begins with each of us first. Ourselves. We can’t influence anyone if we don’t show ourselves as worthy of imitating or at least listening to.
    Excellent article.

  10. I wrote as soon as this came out at LinkedIn but I wanted to say a few things here too in short: what a comprehensive list of how we need to show up in this world and how important it is that we take this forced opportunity given to us to better our world. I am anxious to see what good will come out of it with all of our efforts.Yes I expect more from myself. It is no time to complacent. We owe it to our humanity and the next generations too. Thank you for this very inspirational article. It is so needed now.

    • “We owe it” indeed, Brooke – grateful that you are lockstep with us in this journey. Someone wiser than I said not long ago; “A culture of personality cannot be sustained as it’s broken at the point of the soul. So divided by the imposter syndrome, anxiety, addiction, mental, emotional illness, loneliness, suicide, fear of not being enough, poisonous righteousness, the victim mindset, and hoarding, you hope many people finally begin to break free and realize that life is about cultivating core values of courage, honesty, humility, integrity, freedom, compassion, kindness, wholehearted empowerment.” … We need to individually and collectively do MORE. And we need to start doing MORE yesterday…

  11. The opposite of me? Why … ‘We’

    https://pictures.philpin.com/PeopleFirst/Opposites.jpeg

    Also … Ruskoff a couple of days ago …

    In the Industrial Age, as mechanical clocks dictated human time and factory machines outpaced human workers, we began to think of ourselves in very mechanical terms. We described ourselves as living in a “clockwork universe,” in which the human body was one of the machines. Our language slowly became invested with mechanical metaphors: We needed to grease the wheels, crank up the business, dig deeper, or turn a company into a well-oiled machine. Even everyday phrases, such as “fueling up” for eating lunch or “he has a screw loose” for thinking illogically, conveyed the acceptance of humans as mechanical devices.

  12. First of all, we should ask to ourselves if, for us, a better world is place where it is not required to think, nor improve our social condition, where the seasons, ages and generations pass slowly and equal, with some naive fun (or obligation) to applaud every time someone sketches a speech. Or the one in which one can nourish ideals, even utopian, aspire to a legitimate coexistence, between equals, jeopardizing our peace and that of our families, aware that the social chaos, if mismanaged, can even lead to a system worse than the last. Personally, I think that, if we are men and women who cannot give up their dignity, the answer is, despite everything, the second.
    After this indispensable premise, I believe all of us (at family, school, workplace) can committ building the conditions for a better world, which I would like to sum up synthetically here:
    Respecting not only oneself but all that we have around.
    Committing to capture and enhance the best part of everything
    Developing its own personalities, pursuing their own ideas but comparing also them with those of others.
    The transmission of knowledge is an indispensable condition of human progress and today’s technologies allow us to acquire and extend it in quantities that we never imagined, as long as we make a proper and moderate use of these tools.
    Have the mind always in the future, to prepare a better one for the new generations
    Facing every situation with humility and without preconceptions. It is right to fight because the will of citizens is respected in the institutional field, but for this purpose it is permissible only use democratic means to ensure that the government bodies are actually representative of the popular will.
    Not letting one be overcome by fatalism and resignation.
    Engage in activities that make it possible for an increasing number of men and women, of any age, race, religion, color, health, can develop their personality in harmony, being realized according to their aspirations and potential.
    Acting on own inner need and not to expect rewards from the outside. This is that will make us deal with confidence any negative reactions from the existing system.
    Do not think of success as an individual matter, but collective. Individual well-being cannot be separated from the collective well-being.

    • Aldo ~ Your rich comments made me ask:
      What is a “better world” …
      What and-or Who is Source & Standard of “better”
      You mention “Utopian ideals” …
      I am always taken back to “The Giver” ~ by Lois Lowry
      … in this man-created “utopia” there was no God
      … the children were schooled in “sameness” (which is the equivalent of political correctness)
      In the Giver their “ideal” of perfection … was based on deception
      Which affirms:
      “Utopian projects usually end disastrously.” ~ Augustine

  13. Dennis, this article goes without saying much more. In these chaotic times of uncertainty change for the good is imperative. I was thinking as I was reading the piece that (as my crazy mind is sometimes), too bad we couldn’t shake this up in a bottle of milk and feed it to the infants as they grow. Can you imagine what this world would be like if every human being carried in its DNA all that is good, kind, and loving the listed ingredients in your post while growing and contributing to society, would do for this world we live in? I can only imagine.

  14. Hi, Dennis.
    Welcome back.
    Spot on, brother. One of the frames that seems to work for this interesting time is: What can we remove to make room for better? If a bucket is already full and you pour more water in, even if it’s really wonderful water, stuff is going to overflow and soak away, and there’s no way to control which disappears. So we can consciously make room by choosing to bail what’s outmoded, cruel, narrow and harmful. Otherwise, we may throw out the baby, right?
    Be good. And well.
    Mac

  15. Thank you so much, Dennis, for this clear and compelling, meaningful description of what’s possible for humanity, for our lives today and in the future. I especially resonated with compassion, empathy, and emotional intelligence because for years many people have been trained to suppress emotion, but then this sometimes comes out sideways in cruel behavior. Teaching ourselves ways to resolve and safely “discharge” strong emotions -all of them-seeing emotions as separate from behaviors—all emotions welcomed, “You can be angry and bite this washcloth-but you cannot bite your sister.” (Parent redirecting a child) “You can feel angry, but you cannot beat the crap out of your wife.” (a grown up example) When we get up underneath all the unexpressed and unresolved traumas, and hurts in people’s hearts and bodies and provide safe pathways for discharge/expression, we’ll have more opportunities to hold quieter space and compassion for one another. What a challenge to learn, grow or create when our souls or bodies are starving for tenderness and our hearts/bodies/nervous systems are filled with terror/rage/freeze. We will know and fully experience the entire range of human emotion (not just grief, anger, and fear) and discover the connection to the deep well of love that exists inside of every one of us. Can we feel the deep regret for the ways we’ve hurt others, make amends, and choose an entirely different, more productive, useful response in our interactions going forward? May meditation or taking time for quiet and mindfulness become practices that allow our brains to rewire towards self-awareness, emotional regulation, and conscious/thoughtful deeds for the highest good of all. From these place of conscious connection (and many others!), we can continue to grow, learn, and live together.

    • Love your deep insights here, Laura, as they form a great analogy of why we must begin to walk the “do more” talk together. There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it. … It’s time for us to be the candle that lights the way forward. …

  16. Thank you for this, Dennis. I was text chatting with life long friends in Minneapolis last night. We ended up focusing on the strength, wisdom and courage of our children in situations like this. Each of us saw in our children something that gives us hope that the future will be better… for all.

  17. Stimulating read Dennis! All very true!
    Our young minds and possibly lips questioned the acts of our births.. how many times does a child say “I didn’t ask to be born”? I recall saying many times to my parents when I questioned things I thought not fair. These crucial moments were responded with various responses, depending on the mindset at the time and perhaps just the timing of such a profound question. Once we start asking this we start to see our link in the human chain. It takes great dedication to see how your link holds and why it matters. Not everyone is aware, not all are tuned in.
    It all starts with your own link in the chain of humanity. There are links that last forever and some that lose their clasp, some shine more than others, some have a crucial role in holding a jewel. No matter where you are on that chain, if you break, it all falls apart…we are here to help, repair and keep that chain together. One link at a time. It can be fixed. When we can see our part in the overall structure, we find a sense of value in our part and in the parts all together. The pride in this dignity from day one needs to be asserted, distributed and cultivated.
    We all are a part. Just my thoughts here. I am truly invigorated with the enthusiasm and need for unification here. Thank you so much for this Dennis!
    Now we must shake the pebbles from our shoes and get to life’s work!

  18. Dennis,

    I cannot agree with you more! Precisely why Trevor and I do the things we do….to be that shining light, to be the example, to be the hand that lifts up. Change is imperative if we are to see the world become united and the foundation sealed with all you have said. I believe it can be done, just will take a lot of perseverance, strength and the masses shifting to this way of being. Also, to teach and educate the difference between being manipulated to follow, and discerning what is true/real in order to make conscious and informed decisions. There is so much that needs to be done….one step at a time.

    Also, I am seeing more people creating opportunities to bring what you have shared into the workplace. Several of which I am becoming involved with. If feels good to be able to lead others and developed a network and web of like minded individuals who truly want this change and are willing to do whatever it takes to help make it happen. Cheers!

    • Indeed Eileen – together you and Trevor are precisely the “beacons of hope” that we need so many more of. You walk the talk and embrace the spirit behind the journey we have undertaken in our quest for rediscovering humanity at its very best – one step at a time…

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