In this 10 minutes episode, we explore a story about one leader’s challenge with getting comfortable with being uncomfortable in front of his team and sharing when he got things wrong or did not always answer.
The positive impact of sharing your learnings and challenges with your team is this:
- It builds trust, compassion, and empathy.
- You go there first, allowing others to do the same.
- Transparency reduces people second-guessing you behind your back.
- Collaboration and creativity improve when you work together to find solutions to challenges.
The flip side of the above is that the leader usually feels uncomfortable, then tries to ignore their feelings or push any discomfort away so they can get on with their work. This behavior only leads to more suffering for everyone.
The best gift you can give your people and yourself is to get comfortable with noticing when you feel uncomfortable and being curious about the source of those feelings.