I Was A Female Marine In The 70’s

Back then we were called Women Marines, WMs or BAMs. We told ourselves that BAM stood for Beautiful American Marine, but we knew better. I was assigned a 0102 MOS [that’s military occupational specialty] as a Personnel Officer.

When I arrived at my first duty station in the Mohave Desert, I was introduced around the headquarters building, where I would be working. A crusty Lieutenant Colonel called me aside and handed me a business card. It said, “I’ve had a vasectomy.” I had just been through a few months of hell where us Second Lieutenants were put in fear of senior officers and taught to do as we were commanded. Thankfully, I had the strength to say “thank you,” and walk on.  Then I went back to my quarters and cried.

After a few weeks, I received a phone call at work from the President of the Officers’ Wives Association. She said that several people saw me eating lunch with one of the Marine Officers (who happened to be my boss) in the Officers’ Club. She suggested that I should refrain from doing that in the future. She didn’t say why. She didn’t have to.

I think it may have been an experiment, but “they” decided to give me an opportunity to be assigned to a combat unit, and I became the Adjutant of the First Field Artillery Group. There wasn’t much danger; the war in Vietnam had ended, and the bigger threat was off base. We couldn’t wear uniforms off base because of the strong anti-military sentiment post-Vietnam.

I walked down the hill to join my new unit, headquartered in an aluminum Quonset hut. As I walked down the hall to the Commanding Officer’s office to report in, I noticed that there were two heads [bathrooms]. One said “Officers,” and one said “Enlisted.” When I asked where the female head was located, they pointed up the hill to the Officers Club. I trudged up the hill, which was great for keeping in shape.

A couple of weeks later, a Captain came over to me and said, loudly and in front of my Marines, that I had no business being in “his” Marine Corps and he planned to make my life miserable. The Colonel did stand up for me. Sort of.

All in all, I did pretty well as a Woman Marine officer. I use that term because what I did bears no resemblance to what female Marines do today demonstrating physical and emotional strength I cannot even imagine. Those anecdotes I just shared are pretty mild, but they were traumatic for me. I was thankful to have a champion who helped me see that I would fare better by simply ignoring the a$$holes. That served me well because I found a$$holes in the civilian world as well; lots of them.

My purpose in telling this story is to say that most of these a$$holes would have been quite happy to mar my career. Thanks to my champion and a little tough love, I didn’t let them. I chose to move on. And I became resilient.

I don’t want to rewrite that history. Were those a$$holes wrong? Sure they were. They were mean, rude and clueless. They had no sensitivity to what their actions might mean to others. Today, we are all significantly more sensitive, thanks to the media, but a$$holes still exist.

And those folks may have something good to offer. Honestly, that Captain who told me I shouldn’t be in his Marine Corps was a good officer. Misguided in social skills, but he believed what he said with a passion. I’d follow him into combat, and that’s why the Marine Corps exists.

We all have different beliefs, different histories and different contexts that have helped us become the person we are today. There is strength in those differences, and there is knowledge to be gained from history.

Why, in heaven’s name, would we rewrite history to erase all of the trials and tribulations that made us who we are today?

Today, women in the Marine Corps are called Marines. I am proud to call myself a Marine and feel like I had just a tiny part in where the Marine Corps is today.


Carol Anderson
Carol Anderson
CAROL is the founder and Principal of Anderson Performance Partners, LLC, a business consultancy focused on bringing together organizational leaders to unite all aspects of the business – CEO, CFO, HR – to build, implement and evaluate a workforce alignment strategy. With over 35 years of executive leadership, she brings a unique lens and proven methodologies to help CEOs demand performance from HR and to develop the capability of HR to deliver business results by aligning the workforce to the strategy. She is the author of Leading an HR Transformation, published by the Society for Human Resource Management in 2018, which provides a practical RoadMap for human resource professionals to lead the process of aligning the workforce to the business strategy, and deliver results, and writes regularly for several business publications.

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  1. So interesting to me how we can fail to make sense between what we’re called to fight for and how we treat one another at home. Was watching Ken Burn’s “The War” the other night, and he highlighted how Japanese Americans and Black Americans were put in segregated units. The Japanese 442nd was the most decorated unit for its size and length of service in the history of the US military. Black Americans made up the majority of the “Tuskegee Airman’s” group, a highly decorated group of fighter pilots.

    I’m sorry, Carol, that you had to endure what you endured as you were poised to defend our country. A$$holes, indeed.

    • I appreciate your comment, Jeff, but I’m actually not sorry for those experiences as I would not be who I am today. You talk about history….we, as Americans, have done some pretty egregious things to a lot of people, and some times in the name of our faith. I can live with everything if we just learn from it. Not sure we do much of that these days.

    • Yeah, not so sure we learn from it. To Joe’s point about Vietnam and Afghanistan. And faith? There are lots of people who walk their talk, and then there are those who will “hold their nose” relative to one of the most narcissistic, misogynistic, deliberately misleading, and dangerous individuals to walk the earth if it means getting something they want. I always want to ask them “W.W.J.D.?”

  2. Carol – I hate that you had to endure the harassment and disrespect that you encountered. But, I also thank you – your determination and example of excellence made it possible for women to earn the title Marine without a gender reference. That is a legacy of which you can be proud. Semper Fi, my friend.

    • Hi Len – thanks for the comment. I wrote this a long time ago but it still holds true for me. But what is also true is that I see what happened simply made me strong and proud to have survived. I wouldn’t change it if I could go back and do so.

      Semper Fi!!

  3. Jane I can’t believe that I did not see this article sooner it is absolutely great and I can still connect. The Courage and strength that those of us had to endure in a predominately man’s world is beyond question and I salute you and thank you for your service to our country. Great story