I Spy A Love Problem

I spy a Love problem among us.

It has contributed to millions of people feeling stuck in life; doing something they don’t want to be doing every day; being where they don’t want to be every day; and feeling negative about themselves and others – every day.

All of this “stuck” dynamic is really a lie. Yes, I said “a lie!”

It’s a lie, not because it is not reality every day, but rather because each of us has the individual power to make changes – to determine our destiny. Our change choices might be limited to one thought or one step at a time, but there IS individual power to choose. Each of us is only “stuck” to the degree that we refuse to look at our thoughts and feelings about the mucky mess of “stuck!”

What is the one-thought or one-step breakout for you?

For me, it is realizing that I am only stuck to the degree that I focus on the hopelessness of my situation. I am only stuck as long as I focus on what others are doing or not doing; what others say; what others want; and what others think.

Oh, but when I shake my feelings and slap my brain into focusing on MY problems, MY options, MY best options, and MY steps into action – all of a sudden, I genuinely realize I have the power and the executive authority to begin changing my reality.

Yes, it may be one-step or one-thought at a time but THAT is powerful and it IS the beginning of change.

Perfectionism is simply about believing something or someone (myself included) MUST be without fault or failure to be acceptable. Even more, perfectionism is about refusing to accept or tolerate any dynamic that doesn’t equal a certain level of quality or achievement.

Most often, the burden and impact of perfectionism are harshest upon SELF.

Self-expectations for tolerating, being, and doing are the harshest of masters. Oh, but when SELF allows the sweet oil of love (positive affection, interest, pleasure, and acceptance) to flow – BOOM! Love is such a healer, especially self-love.

Loving SELF enough to do what is good and healthy and right for SELF is the beginning of true transformation – not just change. For it is in the transformation of the thoughts and feelings that each of us begins the process of “getting unstuck!”

How can you begin today to transform the thoughts and feelings that are working to keep you believing you are stuck wherever you don’t want to be?

I believe in you; I believe you CAN begin today. If it were easy, everyone could get unstuck. But, I believe YOU can! Why? Because you are interested enough to read this far.

I’d love to share a complimentary 30-minute chat with you. Let’s see where your Life On Purpose Now can have its new beginning – from feeling stuck to being free to choose your path each day.

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Devaney Rae
Devaney Rae
Devaney’s professional background includes professional Business Development, Leadership, and Life on Purpose Coaching, along with Instructional Design Technology consulting for Training & Presentation Design. Devaney also provides professional consulting within Organizational/ Performance Management for business owners and decision-makers. Devaney also established Life On Purpose with Devaney Rae in early 2018 as a way to connect with others who want to Get From Where You Are Now To Where You Want to Be. This effort connects people with professional coaching and a variety of resources to establish business growth that includes learning to create and manage multiple streams of income. Devaney works one-on-one and in small groups with people to create their own Life Purpose Plan and to develop the correct Business Strategy for Growth. Then, she helps them bring the plan to life so each one can step into their ownMORE! She has enjoyed a successful career in Healthcare Administration, Chemical Manufacturing, Retail Sales, Marketing, and within the Non-Profit Business sectors. Devaney earned her Bachelor’s degree in Business Administration from Walden University and her Master’s degree in Instructional Design Technology for Professional Trainers from New York Institute of Technology. She also earned a degree in Dental Hygiene with license to practice in Texas and Louisiana. Devaney is a published author of the book, Countless Joys: The Place Beyond Tears (Westbow Press, 2015). The content is her story about how ordinary people are called to do “the extraordinary” in life. She has a passion for impacting others with life-giving hope, joy, and peace. Devaney established a non-profit organization, Countless Joys, Inc. in 2015. The mission of Countless Joys, Inc. is to Touch the Lives of Others with Joy. The specific focus is on Interrupting Human Trafficking of children and teenagers. Altogether, giving back to others is Devaney’s personal life mission and joy. Devaney makes her home in Franklin, Tennessee.

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