Now, there are plenty of conversations out there that any and every parent is probably dreading. Some are just inevitable, like the birds and the bees, death, financial hardships, and relationships ending, and then there’s one that doesn’t always happen but sometimes does: addiction. Now, addictions are sometimes portrayed in children’s media; just take a look back at older cartoons; there are even full-fledge episodes about addictions, such as The Powerpuff Girls back in the early 2000s.
Plus, this is usually taught in school, too. But when it comes to kids, usually, unless they personally experience something they don’t fully understand. So you can’t always expect school or media to teach them, especially when it comes to a sensitive topic like this. It doesn’t matter what the addiction is either, whether it be alcoholism, gambling, gaming, or any addiction really. So, with that said, you have to go about the right way of discussing this with them. So, here’s exactly what you need to know!
It Starts with Creating a Safe Space for Conversation
Start by choosing a quiet, private setting where your child feels safe and comfortable. This environment will encourage open dialogue and allow your child to express their thoughts and feelings freely. Plus, you’ll need to assure them that it’s okay to ask questions and share their concerns. Sometimes, it can be as simple as sitting on the couch or bed, as long as there are no distractions.
Use Age-Appropriate Language
A small child doesn’t need to know all the not-so-nice details. So, that’s why you have to tailor your explanation to your child’s age and level of understanding. For younger children, keep the language simple and avoid overwhelming them with too much detail. For example, you might say, “Auntie is not feeling well because she’s been using something that’s not good for her body.” Older children can handle more detailed explanations, such as, “Your uncle is struggling with an addiction, which means he has a hard time stopping even though it’s hurting him.” Of course, your kid is going to ask plenty of questions, so you just need to keep this in mind, too.
Encourage Questions and Open Dialogue
Before discussing addiction with your child, it’s beneficial to first contact a professional addiction treatment center and gather details about the specific programs they offer for the addiction affecting your loved one. When you initiate the conversation, tailor your approach to your child’s age—sometimes a gentle approach is necessary, but clarity is also crucial.
Encourage your child to ask questions and express their feelings openly. Patience is key; be prepared to revisit the topic as needed. Addiction is a complex issue, and your child might need time to understand and process the information. Reassure them that they can talk to you anytime about their worries or thoughts, fostering an open and supportive dialogue.
