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Echoes from the Year of the Pandemic

Author’s Note 2022: More than two years have elapsed since I first recorded my thoughts on the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on individuals and society and posted these in an article on LinkedIn, yet I would make the case that if nothing else, these observations remain as valid and trenchant as they ever were. 

Subsequently, many people endured significant disruptions to their personal and working lives, including extended lockdowns and small business closures, in some instances, mandated “vaccinations” (which interestingly, did not confer immunity and potentially held, at least for some recipients, serious side effects, up to and including death), negative impacts on personal and professional relationships, and more.  

As pandemic fatigue set in, global conflicts erupted, including a significant kinetic escalation of Russian adventurism and aggression in Ukraine; continued CCP belligerence and aggression towards Taiwan with suggestions that reunification with the Chinese Mainland by force if necessary was very much on the table; what appears to be an increasingly unstable global economy with rampant inflation; questions about the integrity of elections here in the United States, the alleged bastion of democracy (via a government structured as a Republic); most recently, significant layoffs in the Technology sector, in many cases involving well-compensated white collar workers, suggesting over-hiring or potentially questionable business models…

The list goes on. One doesn’t have to look too far to wonder what fresh horrors await the next reveal if one is so inclined to do so.

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As we approach the final quarter of 2020, which I think for much of humanity may be defined as, “The Year of the Pandemic,” I think we all acknowledge that this has been a difficult and challenging year for many, if not most, and outright traumatic for others. It exposes vulnerabilities in ourselves, in our societies, and perhaps even in humanity itself.

For those who are struggling with certain realities and/or changes in current circumstances brought on or magnified by this year, rather than dwell on the negatives or suffering that we perceive, it affords us a very important opportunity. That opportunity, whether out of choice or necessity, is to take a good hard look inside, and perhaps seek to recalibrate ourselves, or better identify, define, and align our core values and our priorities.

Although we may not have wished for this, 2020 is a year of lessons, both individual and collective, and perhaps one that can enable #transformation and #transition into an improved version of ourselves. And perhaps by sharing, particularly any actionable lessons, we may at least comfort, and even benefit others.

On a personal level, like many others, I increasingly am forced to confront my own mortality, and to appreciate that none of us know the number of our days. Furthermore, many things can change without warning, or with very limited notice, and there are things that are simply beyond our control. Yet, what is within our control is how we respond and adapt. A critical lesson for me is the necessity not only of reading and seeking to truly understand certain philosophical approaches or traditions, but the practice of being able to live those lessons accordingly. For example, author Ryan Holiday has done a very commendable job of bringing Western #stoic philosophy to the forefront in recent years, and making it more accessible, I think, to a wider audience.

But the truth is, until we actually have to measure up to some of the ideals put forth by people like Marcus Aurelius or Seneca, consuming words is very different than living the underlying virtues. The same goes for my own long-standing interest in Ch’an (Zen) Buddhist and Taoist thought (integrated into Shaolin Temple teachings), as expressed by sages such as Lao Tzu, Chuang Tzu, and even warriors turned philosophers such as Miyamoto Musashi. It is one thing to read, appreciate, and even savor the words and ideas, but can we govern ourselves with them?

I’ve long understood the importance of #resiliency and #perseverance, but these are demonstrated through our actions and attitude, and not through empty platitudes. Yes, you may hurt temporarily, or rage against the “unfairness” of it all, or disappointments or setbacks in your career or personal life, and it’s true that the Universe does not necessarily apportion or distribute pain or challenges equally.

So what?

Raging against such inequality solves nothing, and is certainly beyond our ability to influence or change. This teaches #empathy, something that we arguably can never experience too much of. For me, this also has presented the opportunity to more deeply appreciate (and strive to implement more holistically) Eastern spiritual traditions that have long resonated with me, confronting the concept of #suffering and its recognition via the Four Noble Truths and the Eightfold Path to alleviate this.

I’ve learned the incalculable value of having at least one true friend to confide in, even while acknowledging that such people are not necessarily easy to find, and when we do, we must count our blessings.

Perhaps there is comfort in thinking of such a party as a “kindred soul,” but that’s a very personal outlook. I will confess, however, that I do draw comfort from a belief that the Universe does see fit for certain people to cross our paths, and to fulfill an important role that we may or may not recognize at the time, whether they are in our life for a brief, passing moment or for a longer period of time.

Through one such friend, in particular, I’ve learned that #vulnerability is not something that will always be exploited, manipulated, or perceived as weakness, even if prior life experiences for a time had convinced me otherwise. Sometimes we must be willing to let our guard down, and to recognize that another soul truly wants to connect, and recognizes that despite one’s flaws or shortcomings, this is not a deterrent to the qualities that drew two people together in the first place.

Learning to let go has been another theme arising from that interaction. Let go of blame, of shame, of doubt, of guilt. While it may be commendable to try to be strong and resolute all of the time, in truth we are not, and this does not make us a “burden” on those who truly care for us. I still wrestle with that one, in all honesty, but I like to think I’m coming to terms with it. And in closing, for now, I’ve also learned why, no matter what, we must keep the faith that a better tomorrow can and will come.

Jonathan Ross
Jonathan Ross
By my own admission, my path in life thus far has been perhaps less linear and obvious than conscious choice would dictate, a reflection I suppose of a writer’s temperament. This journey has provided me with a wealth of experiences ranging from opportunities to spend time at George Lucas’ Skywalker Ranch, to visits to the Pentagon and the air bases of key NATO allies in the performance of my duties. Since 2013, my “day job” has focused on Aerospace & Defense, where I am an executive specializing in strategy, program management, and business development for a privately held defense manufacturing firm, responsible for leading efforts internationally in Central, Eastern, and Southeastern Europe, and supporting such efforts in other parts of Europe and the Indo-Pacific regions. From 2017 to 2020, over a 39-month period, I helped lead a joint Lockheed Martin Aeronautics | Marvin Engineering Co. | University of Texas, El Paso Team, under U.S. Air Force sponsorship, to win a prestigious Nunn-Perry Award from the U.S. Department of Defense for our superior results in the OSBP Mentor-Protégé Program. I opportunistically continue to offer management and communications consulting services, including business and creative writing, building on past Los Angeles-based experience in the Entertainment and Technology fields serving in creative, program/project management, and marketing-oriented roles for a variety of employers. While waiting for my “real life to begin,” I’m also a dedicated martial artist (primarily Krav Maga and Traditional Wing Chun Kung Fu, with Xingyi Quan and Tai Chi Quan experience), outdoorsman (with a keen interest in tracking), guitarist, and on some level at least, aspiring alchemist. Since my adolescence, I’ve been fascinated by Eastern wisdom traditions including Ch'an (Zen) Buddhism and Taoism (married together through Shaolin Temple teachings) and Native American cultures, which in my own life and philosophy I’ve sought to reconcile with Western ideals of independence and self-reliance. I count among my inspirations the writer John Fusco and Jeffrey “Skunk” Baxter. Perhaps most importantly, I’m father to a child that I hope will be a far better human than me.

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