Knowing what to say and how to say it is hard, especially in critical times like these when everyone has a magnifying glass on your every word. So many businesses have been stopped in their tracks, afraid to post and concerned about what to say out of fear of backlash.
Don’t be.
Even in these trying times, don’t be afraid to share what you have worked hard to build, what your brand stands for, your mission, and your commitment to your community.
Breathe.
Check-in with yourself. Allow yourself to get in touch with how you’re feeling.
Breathe.
Don’t “should” on yourself. There’s no right way to get through this time of uncertainty and the social unrest of our nation.
Let go of the pressure of other people’s expectations. There are so many messages out there what you should be doing, what you could be doing.
Remove the word “should” from your vocabulary. It is not your friend. Uncertain times mean navigating changes in your life that you can’t control. Listen, learn, show up and do the work.
Nothing changes unless something changes.
One last thing . . . make that two.
- It’s important to remember we are not alone in our feelings of uncertainty.
- It’s important to not lose sight of your unique gifts and what your business has to offer to others. Start with remembering why you started in the first place. This is one thought which will make your will stronger and help you persevere better.
I have come to the conclusion that if I would like the world to operate on a higher ethical code – I must do so by staying true to the mission of who I am and why I started and built my business.
I can lose my focus and work may get a bit messy while I sort things out, but I will continue to spread ripples of positivity, self-love, acceptance, motivation, kindness, laughter, generosity, and grace even when it’s hard.
Especially when it’s hard.
XO, Bonnie
Bonnie, you are right! Uncertainty does not mean time to give up. And “should” may not be a particularly useful word. Especially in such a time as this.
Listening works. When we listen (to ourselves and others), we figure out the next step of how to show up in a way that fits.
And how do this next step that shows up when we show up in the present moment. Exactly as we are. Uncertainty and all.
Action leads to leadership and grace.
Even in times of uncertainty.
blessings,
Cynthia
Cynthia,
I appreciate your perspective and your words. Especially in our current world environment when so much is out of our control, remembering the ONE thing within our control, our mindset.
Have your best day my friend. I appreciate you.
XO, Bonnie
Welcomed Bonnie.
Hope we will have the chance to interact in this shared group or through LinkedIn,
Wish you the best for whatever comes your way.
Hi Aldo,
Thank you so much for the warm welcome. My best to you in all your future endeavors. Have your best day! XO
Bonnie, Welcome to a place where you can truly unleash your imagination. Good friends, good stories and we always leave a light on for the 3 am writers and fresh brewed coffee.
Hi Larry, A safe place to be creative, good friends, good stories and fresh brewed coffee – I’m in!
I appreciate your words and your connection. XO
Welcome to BizCatalyst360, Bonnie! Thank you for the encouragement to keep sharing the value we bring to the table, the positivity and perspectives we have to offer. I appreciate the kindness, reminder not to “should” on myself, and the encouragement to keep moving forward-for everything is always changing. Continuing to embrace change and uncertainty as fuel for creative expression can be very liberating. 🙂
Hi Laura, Thank you for your kind and insighful words. I had to stop ‘looking around’ for answers and ‘started to look within,’ believing in who I am and my ‘why’ to serve others. Have your best day! XO
Bonnie – Welcome to the BC360 family. Your article is perfect for this forum where engagement is respectful, encouragement abounds, and new friendships come from the vast readers who seek out this positive internet experience. I am sure you will quickly gain a following.
Hi Len,
Thank you for your welcome to the BC360 family. I am already soaking in the feeling of support and encouragement. I appreciate your words. I have found my place here, I am home.
Have your best day! XO
I’m so delighted to see you in this community, Bonnie! I’m also thrilled to read of your commitment to continue rippling your positivity out into the world!
Hi Kimberly,
I’m so happy to be joining you in this community of bright lights. This IS the place where I belong – learning, sharing and supporting like- minded amazing people. I hold fast to my memories of being together in Montana. I know our paths are destined to bring us together again. Have your best day!