Common Man vs, The Uncommon

SUCCESS MATTERSOne of the very valuable lessons I learnt, during the course of my career, at a pretty early stage though, related to distinction between the common man and the uncommon.

All day, every day, we can find without any efforts throngs of people indulging in their daily chores like machines with hardly any room to bring about a change or to even dare imagine making a change. Most of them are too scared to even break out of the box that they have put themselves in. I always found it very pitiful because they fail to see the very fragile barrier between the Common Man and the Uncommon.

One of the biggest and clearly identifiable differences between the two, even when doing the same job, in the same work-place and in an identical environment, under the same boss relates to the way they do their individual assignment.

The common man does whatever he is told to do, nothing less and nothing more, with a couldn’t care less attitude under the pressures of his demanding family-life or financial situation whereas the Uncommon one performs his assigned job with a passion, making sure nothing is over-looked and that there are no loose strings left anywhere. He puts his heart and soul in the job, giving the best possible he can.

The difference is noticeable in abundance and this difference, when delivered as a matter of routine helps the worker stand out and gain praise and/or recognition. Not only does it bring personal pride to the individual but also opens up channels for promotion to the higher level as and when vacancy occurs.

[message type=”custom” width=”100%” start_color=”#FFFFFF” end_color=”#FFFFFF” border=”#fb7200″ color=”# fb7200″]When you do your duty and do it with pride, you can see the difference for yourself because now, you know that nobody could have done it better. You are not leaving things to chance where you may be called upon to fix the same thing over and over again. You will, gradually, program yourself for perfection in every job you do. When your goal is perfection and nothing short of it, constant efforts in the right direction will empower you to achieve the same.[/message][su_spacer]

Rest assured your commitment will soon be recognized and also rewarded in multiple forms. The best, the fastest and the most important reward is a good night’s sleep because you can now tell yourself that you did full justice to the job at hand.

This is what Leonardo Da Vinci had to say about a good night’s sleep: “A well-spent day brings happy sleep.”

And then, we have this impactful message from none other than Albert Einstein:

“If most of us are ashamed of shabby clothes and shoddy furniture, let us be more ashamed of shabby ideas and shoddy philosophies. It would be a sad situation if the wrapper were better than the meat wrapped inside it.”

The direct implication herein is to outperform all others every time. Just looking good and wearing nice clothes is not enough to be successful.

It is your ‘dedication-to-perfection-with-pride’ that will take all attention away from your person and force others to focus on your performance capabilities instead.

Do not be satisfied with having accomplished a task. Just doing your job will never ever make you stand out. If you want to achieve extra-ordinary results, be prepared to perform extra-ordinarily well.

Get rid of shabby ideas and shoddy philosophies. Stop wasting time with so called friends who like to gossip about others because those who sit and gossip with you will also never fail to gossip about you in front of others given the very first opportunity.

Life is a continuous process that takes its toll on us, no doubt, but gives much more in return (to those who believe). You only have to see the signs and act accordingly. Don’t we all know the old adage: when handed lemons, we should strive to make lemonade out of them?

What I do differently is make marmalade out of those same lemons because it tastes better and I can enjoy it longer!!!

In order to venture on to the path of productivity, we must attain perfection in our preparation. In simple words, whatever you do, focus on doing it better than the guy next door; do it better than the best guy in the business; do it so well that you stand out.

Learn to live each day as if it was the last day of your life, the Day of Final Judgment! Do it so well that it leaves a legacy. You put your heart and soul into what you do with the belief that this last act of yours is what you will be judged upon. It is this sense of completion that will help you forge ahead because now you have proven that whatever someone else can do, you could do better.

The hard-earned admiration will lead you to recognition (when coupled with persistence) and then onwards to personal satisfaction. Remember: ”recognition is what babies cry for and men die for”.

You will only start to feel personal pride in your work, no matter how insignificant, once your dedication and commitment to excel takes you on the path to recognition. For all practical purposes, it is not too difficult to embark upon this path. However, what is difficult is the utmost commitment to stay focused under all kinds of pressure and extenuating circumstances.

I am no philosopher nor am I an educator; neither a forceful advisor nor a persuasive snake oil salesman. Why should you pay heed to what I have to say in the following pages? I am just one of you, a run of the mill simpleton, but one with a difference, a huge difference, if I may say so.

What makes me different is my uncompromising quest to go beyond limits, my unflinching desire to challenge the outer boundaries and my calculative projection of immense possibilities. I am not the only one on this road of possibilities and I beckon you, each one of you, to come and join me and why just join me, why not overtake me and show the way to millions of others, who could also follow in your foot-steps.

Bharat Mathur
Bharat Mathur
WHERE goal setting and systematically achieving each one of them has been the ‘Mantra’, where earning trust by delivering value has been an uncompromising principle and where deeply impactful experiences have made an indelible impression to look directly into the eyes of toughest problems and tackling them head-on has been a major cementing glue in the foundation, Bharat Mathur fits the bill, hands down! Creating value for others, out of the challenges his career in the “C” Suite kept throwing at him left, right and center, Bharat now finds solace in being a ‘Guide by Your Side’ rather than a ‘Sage on the Stage with An Eye on What You Buy’! Past 4 decades of Bharat’s life have been no less eventful than that of anyone else in similar circumstances. However, the way he lived from one challenge to another and stayed focused on his goal is clearly visible as much in his Coaching as in his #1 Best Seller Book: “you Are YOU-nique: Realize Your True Worth”! His next book project tackles ‘Internet of things’ (IoT) from the viewpoint of a layman and helps understand this fast-approaching revolution in simple, easy-to-understand language with live examples: “SMART PHONE + I o T = INCOMPARABLE OPPORTUNITIES” Nurturing a number of successful businesses, mentoring a lot more towards astronomical growth and helping them identify and eradicate trouble spots, Bharat has rightfully earned the nickname: ‘Achiever’ Send him Bouquets or Brickbats, Bharat loves it all!
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