Birthing and Being Born

There is a significant difference between being born and being birthed.

~Temple Hayes

As I continue to celebrate the joy, power, and privilege of life, I have made some great discoveries regarding being born and being birthed.

Being born is nature and natural and you were born due to the energy and effort someone was willing to put into carrying you and releasing you. Once you are supported and moving past your teenage years, you do not need to be carried by anyone else. Your soul purpose is to become a self-actualized individual based upon what you agreed to before you showed up. As long as you are in bondage or needing to be carried or needing to be approved of by anyone else, you will never know true freedom. More than likely you will settle for mediocrity.

Birthing is your job, not your parents nor your teacher nor someone you admire. You will occasionally hear the right words at the right time, you will resonate with a song or words or a reflection of someone else yet the entire purpose is for you to be birthed. You will be birthed thousands of times in one lifetime if you are authentic, free, and full of energy and If you do not live from a box or have a paradigm box mentality.

If you feel in your heart you have a large purpose then you will note you may have experienced lots of large problems. This is where so many people abandon their purpose and take the laid back road.

They then fall into the illusion of control and being controlling for they desire not to continue to be birthed. Those problems were not created so you would spend your entire lifetime drawing from a space that you are broken rather than having these experiences so you could understand the depth of humanity. Each issue you have faced has prepared you for the face of someone else allowing you to hear their hearts.

I am so grateful for the kind and unkind encounters in my life. The loving and the unloving…always instructive. The inconsistencies of individuals led me to a deeper place inside myself so I could create a solid foundation working with immutable laws. Developing a core of faith and dreams which could sustain any test of time.

The natural laws are millions of years old. Don’t spend your life arguing with them. Understand the flow of them and you will be birthed beyond your wildest imagination.

Thank you to everyone I have ever encountered for you have helped me birth a thousand times and so many more to follow. I have just begun.

What about you? Birthing is a necessity to truly be a leader not only in your life but to impact the lives of others.

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Rev. Dr. Temple Hayes
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Global Spiritual Leader, Author, Difference Maker. Rev. Dr. Temple Hayes grew up in South Carolina. She is an ordained Science of Mind Minister and an ordained Unity Minister. She is described as a prophet and mystic for our times and the new spiritual leader the world needs today. Temple Hayes is a Difference Maker, Spiritual Leader, Author, International Motivational Speaker, Humanitarian, Life Rights Advocate, Shamanic Practitioner, and President and Founder of life-changing non-profit organizations. Temple Hayes serves as CEO and Spiritual Leader of First Unity Spiritual Campus, a New Thought center, in St. Petersburg, Florida that transcends religious denominations, embraces all ethnicity, and reaches beyond national borders. Temple serves on the leadership team of the Association of Global New Thought. She hosts a weekly radio show for Unity Online Radio called “The Intentional Spirit.” She is the author of the following books: “The Right to Be You,” “How to Speak Unity,” “When Did You Die?” and the CD motivational series “From Good to Amazing.” She was a twice featured speaker at Carnegie Hall in 2019 for suicide prevention and awareness and the #neveralone movement. She is a featured speaker on the Mind Dive App and an acting role as the spiritual leader in the Movie “I am Never Alone” (2020) produced by Michel Pascal and featuring Deepak Chopra, Gabriella Wright, and other leading visionaries. She is passionate about life rights, gay rights, animal rights, and human rights and has created the following movements to both educate and advocate for the voiceless: Global Peace Workers; Life Rights; The SOFI Project that rescues and rehabilitates dogs and cats; and The Institute for Leadership and Lifelong Learning International. Temple is the recipient of many awards including the following: Nominated as an all American and elected to the National Softball Hall of Fame (1979); elected to Outstanding Young Women of America (1988); International Who’s Who of American Professionals (1997); National Association of Professional Women (2008); the People of Distinction Humanitarian Awards (2016); awarded an Honorary Doctorate Degree of Humane Letters (2019). She is a contributing author to the inspiring book Crappy to Happy: Sacred Stories of Transformational Joy


  1. “If you feel in your heart you have a large purpose then you will note you may have experienced lots of large problems. Each issue you have faced has prepared you for the face of someone else allowing you to hear their hearts”

    These are wise words Dr. Temple Hayes. I share an affinity with your thoughts & words. I acknowledge that the kind and unkind encounters in my life prepare me for a larger or more important purpose than myself. I have paid attention, not to worry about the outcome but rather focus on the journey, the experience, and the impact we have on the people in the journey. Enjoyed reading this post. Thank you

  2. Thank you for this Rev. Dr. Temple Hayes,
    I never thought about it as being born and birthing but so see every single encounter in life as one in which to learn. If there’s one thing I believe as well it would be that nature always wins! You can’t fight it, but you learn to work with it.
    I am grateful for this as well. Th many times I have been birthed are the a-ha’s that were meant for me. Thanks for this perspective to add to my thoughts now!