If any human being is to reach full maturity both the masculine and feminine sides of the personality must be brought up into consciousness.
– M. Esther Harding
‘Ultimately, there is no division in life – it is the human mind that likes to label and separate things. The masculine and feminine are therefore two sides of the same coin.’
The state of our inner marriage (twin flame union) is often a good indicator and will mirror the quality of the relationships we have in the world. The relationships I have with other men reflects to a large extent the relationship and health of my inner masculine which is largely to do with healing father wounds. In the same way, I see that as I have healed and transformed my mother wounds and my inner feminine is increasingly healthy and at peace, this is reflected by the relationships and connections with women who show up in my world.
So it’s somewhat simplified but if you are a single man and you want a good woman in your life then work on nurturing your inner feminine and when the time is right and your inner work has made good progress a woman will show up as a direct reflection of where you are now in your journey of inner marriage.
She will almost certainly be kind enough to show you where there is still work to be done and there is still room for improvement too! And the same will apply for a single woman that would like to be in a relationship with a man. Look within first…do your work…
Union within us reflects union in our outer relationships. And inner balance means that we are deeper into the realms of self-actualisation and this means that we are clearer conduits to express and channel and ‘be’ and embody Love and Truth, which is most welcome in the world at this powerful time of transformation and creation of a New Earth for ourselves, the children and generations to come.