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Following the Lines
"What are the lines we should follow in life to navigate safely through the storms that most certainly will come? How should we determine which way to go when hard times come?" ...
Going Nowhere Fast
"How often do we find ourselves approaching life in the same way this driver approached the evening rush hour? We get to moving in a certain direction. Yet, we are not realizing the objectives we had intended with that movement." ...
No More Best: What We Need to Get Right in Handling Perfectionism
"We live in a world that tells us to do our best while at the same time telling us our best is not good enough!" ...
What is Love? – Try Sharing a Car!
"Love is doing what you agreed to do. Love is believing the best in others. Love is asking for what you need. Love is forgiving and focusing on yourself and your actions. Love is never filled with retribution or vindictiveness. Love is not unkind and irritated or seeking revenge." ...
Parking Validation and Marriage Validation
"The right validation in parking is important. The right validation in marriage is even more important." ...
Stop Watching What Others are Doing
"When we look to others to measure how well we are doing, we are looking at their outsides. This is all we can see." ...
Easter Story: The Night My Father and Older Brother Saved Me
"As the Easter season rolls upon us, I am reminded of this true story as told to me by my dear friend, Graeme..."
Please Don’t Ever Forget Who You Are
"As you head out into this busy and sometimes hectic world, please do not get too distracted by the bright lights and amazing spectacles. Remember who you are!" ...
Car Conversations: Rethinking “Fake it Until You Make It.”
"Is this really the best advice to give? Is it really helpful to just throw this out as the solution? Does it work? Does it actually work? If it works, what makes it work? " ...
How About Some Connection for Christmas?
"Every day, someone metaphorically opens their doors to us, hoping to connect in meaningful and fulfilling ways. Every day, we have a choice to respond with closeness and connection or distance and disconnect. It is not hard to tell which will be more fulfilling." ...