Although the arrogant do not like anyone (except to themselves of course), the world is full of it and we have to do it every day. We have been dealing with it since the morning when we are in the queue in the car and they cut us off the road insulting us until the evening when we take public transport and tug us away. It is all and only arrogance and, if only we try to answer and to have our say, they have always and only their reason!
The arrogant are those who always do all the tricks, that is, they know everything about them, and they never let you talk about why we all tend to relate as little as possible with such people. The reason we always try to keep ourselves away from the arrogant is explained by evolutionary psychology which shows how the human being always tends to relate and help sincere and kind people because below it is expected that tomorrow they will do the same for us, this explains why kindness always generates kindness see the article. But the arrogant ones, even though they do not like anyone (apart from themselves), most of the time they benefit from this negative characteristic; even it would seem that the advantages in being arrogant are as many as 5, (as shown by research at the University of Michigan that studied arrogance in the workplace).
Arrogance expresses anger and more often than not anger frightens those in front of it, bringing benefits only to those who express it and not to those who suffer it.
The arrogant people are not kind and so they are difficult people and the difficult people are not very popular, but this only plays in their favor, because with such people it is always better not to discuss and let it go, and you almost always end up giving it to them.
Arrogant people are dominant and dominance brings subjection which in turn brings power and power leads to success especially with the other sex.
Arrogant people believe – because they are convinced of this – that they are superior and better than others and, by convincing themselves, they will be able to convince even those in front of them.
The arrogant people do not discuss putting the problem at the center but they argue directly attacking those in front of them. This is a real intimidation that scares everyone by giving even more power to the arrogant colleague on duty.
Among other things, it is almost always an arrogant person to practice bullying because it is typical of the arrogant to want to excel at the expense of the weaker.
In other words, although arrogance is a deplorable characteristic, it often brings advantages to those who practice it, because it is able to intimidate those in front of it by undermining its self-esteem.
But this does not mean arrogance is always successful because, as researchers claim, it can be countered and the first weapon we can use against an arrogant is to group and isolate it. Or, we must keep our distance and avoid discussing because the clash is what arrogants seek and want. Or, again, to be aware that they are the arrogant ones to have a problem and not us, and therefore if we really want to answer we can answer them with a humorous joke.