Myriam Ben Salemhttps://unleashgreatness.blogspot.com/A recovered perfectionist. A passionate. A grown kid. A writer. A storyteller. An edutainer. A lifelong learner. A speaker. An unapologetic truth-teller. A stoic philosopher. More details about the story of my life? With pleasure! I am a mentor with a deep passion for empowering whomever I interact with, helping others unleash the servant leader in them and find their voice they would use to leave their legacy. Ice on the cake, the growth happens implicitly through simply modeling it. I spent 9 years working at a high level of consultancy and management in the Information Technology, Human Resources, and Research sectors, only to realize that my perfectionism syndrome was damaging myself and those around me. After three burnouts, an existential crisis, and having almost committed suicide following being harshly abused by a malignant narcissist, I dramatically embarked on a painful journey to drastically transform the miserable individual I was. I was saved at the last moment by the grace of my pure love divinity through an out-of-body experience making me see all the lies of my unhealthy ego, realize this gigantic universe was not revolving around my small self. Most importantly, I was able to visualize I was here for a mission. That was the moment of my migration from being religious to spiritual. The butterfly took time to emerge though. The caterpillar had to heal the very obvious scars, gain some strength to start the most rewarding investment of the whole existence: destroying all my limiting beliefs both about myself and the world, and rewiring my invasive subconscious program I never wrote in the first place! I am deeply passionate about everything life has to offer. I educate through any possible means on the importance of reconnecting with our common birth’s gifts making all of us seeds of greatness only numbed by the life-time conditioning. Writing is my very favorite and most preferred tool deployed for my mission. The topics I explore are in the nexus of stoic philosophy, psychology, neuroplasticity, and epigenetics. Common denominator? The quality of the subconscious program! I am described as vivacious, confident, compassionate, authentic, funny, warrior, vulnerable, grateful, bold, emotionally mature, showing integrity with an abundance mentality, and always seeking the best way forward for myself and every person I get the privilege to interact with.
My dear sister Myriam,
This Letter to Manipulators is so heartfelt and hits the core of the truth. Manipulators will first try to manipulate but when hit with words of truth, they will find the challenge turned more inwards. If only we could sit them down and read directly
“Building Karma” is a great wag to express it. You get what you put into the Universe. If you try to manipulate it.. it will only manipulate you. In this I truly feel sorry for them that are clueless. If they realized how bad they were manipulating themselves in the process? Then they might listen.. as they are their own favourite subject
Thank you for this one Myriam. Your compassion and soul is loved by me.
Goodness, my cherished Paula! You heartfelt feedbacks never failed me! 😍
“If they realized how bad they were manipulating themselves in the process?”: that was such a powerful statement, my friend!
But, if I am being honest, I don’t care about abusers/manipulators anymore. I had to accept the truth that most of them already lost their soul battle. My open letter is more of an implicit message to the kind-hearted and inherently-good folks so that they could realize what they can be if only they commit to paying the price of re-writing their program, which they never chose in the first place!