A Different Kind of Encounter

What do you see when you observe toddlers play with toys or friends? I see pure flow, excitement, curiosity, and 100% presence. That is the definition of joy to me. And growing up, along the way, we lose the continuity of this nurturing, safe, and fascinating feeling of joy. It comes and goes. For some reason, at some point, in our day or week, we catch it from its tail and feel privileged to experience it. Sometimes we get to savor it, and sometimes we do not even acknowledge it while running from one shiny distraction to another.

And that is why when we, as adults, stumble upon an opportunity to cultivate and experience joy continuously, for hours, even days, we feel like happy toddlers.

I just had the pleasure of attending the #encounter360 event in Tampa Bay, FL, which took me back to that infinite joy of being a toddler. For two days, I get to BE and FEEL joy. During those two days, I caught myself saying twice that I felt like a child. When I reflected on that, I saw why I felt that way.

Environments where you can express yourself freely and authentically, where the only energy you receive from others is love, compassion, friendship, and support, make you feel safe. And when you feel safe, you express yourself even free-er, just like a beautiful vicious circle – a positive one for a change – that grows and grows. That takes you right to the happiness you had in your heart when you were born.

Then you get to experience,

• Oxytocin, Serotonin, and Endorphin go off the chart – as Melissa Hughes, Ph.D. shared,
• A common purpose of being – as Ozlem Brooke Erol championed,
• The dissolving of fear and imposter syndrome – as Phillip T. Williams, M.S. HRD expressed,
• A tangible version of great transformation – as Heather Hansen O’Neill described,
• The chance to unleash your innate divinity – as Allison Kenny demonstrated,
• Expansion of collective consciousness – as Jackie Woodside, CPC, MSW explained,
• A declaration of interdependence using your voice – as Mac Bogert pointed out,
• Beautiful energy that starts growing – as Temple Hayes mentioned,
• What happens when you feel you belong – as Paul Haury inquired,
• Ralph Waldo Emerson’s words: “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” – as Mariah Edgington and Byron Edgington quoted,
• The meaning of owning your awkwardness – as Andy Vargo beautifully articulated,
• How and why we want to be seen, heard, valued, and understood – as Eileen Bild and Trevor Bild presented,
• The sheer happiness of knowing from start to end that you are at a Netweaving Event and not a Networking Event. – as Dennis Pitocco shared.

An encounter that brings everyone closer to each other, where gender, religion, political opinions, status, background, age, cultural differences, and nationality disappear, leaving behind joy, energy, consciousness, loving-kindness, and deep connection.

You find yourself carrying a heart filled with infinite and unconditional love, overwhelmed by the sheer beauty of humanness, and that there is still so much hope for a bright future for humanity.

And you feel the utmost gratitude for being alive and teleported right back to where you were a joyful, creative, curious, courageous, and authentic toddler.