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5 Ways to Develop Kindness Towards Others

Kindness is the language that the deaf can hear and the blind can see.

~ Unknown

Many people appreciate that being kind is synonymous with showing you care about others.  On the other hand, others sneer at kindness in business and express the belief that if you’re too kind, you only set yourself up for others to take advantage of you. In fact, many people often show more kindness to animals than they do to fellow humans.

I believe that whether it’s business or life in general, we’re dealing with other humans, thus there are always ways we can show kindness.

It is true that in the stressful world we live it kindness has to be accompanied by patience and cultivating the ability to remain calm. It will require becoming more aware of what may trigger negative feelings and reactions toward others.

Here are five ways to develop kindness when you interact with others, whether in your personal life or in business:

  1. Be sincere

Sincerity is a fundamental facet of kindness. You can’t sustain being kind for long if you don’t really mean it!

In a world where trust is at an all-time low, train yourself to look for the good in people, things or situations, and act with sincerity and kindness.

  1. Practice active listening

“When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen.” ~ Ernest Hemingway

Active listening is an art that takes practice. Carefully observe two people having a conversation. Quite often you’ll see two people taking turns saying what they want. Neither is really listening to the other. It’s not a two-way dialogue.

If you’re going to help another person feel better or solve a problem, you must really listen. Notice their body language, maintain eye contact, and don’t rehearse what you’re going to say but give them the gift of being heard.

  1. Learn to really empathize

Being kind requires empathy. When you learn to empathize, you’ll be able to put yourself in the shoes of the other person.  By being an engaged listener, you will be able to pick up on how the other person is feeling. Their body language, their tone of voice and facial expressions, as well as their words, will give you clues to help you understand how they’re feeling, and what they might need from you.

You can feel their pain, hurt, or confusion. You don’t judge, criticize, or rush to advise. You just sit with them and acknowledge where they are right now. This is true empathy.

  1. Become compassionate

Compassion is sympathy for the suffering of others and the desire to help them.

Compassion literally means “to suffer together.” Among emotion researchers, it is defined as the feeling that arises when you are confronted with another’s suffering and feel motivated to relieve that suffering.

While compassion is closely tied to empathy, it’s not the same thing. It goes beyond feeling the other person’s pain in your heart, it takes it to the next step.  It allows you to take action to correct or relieve the other person’s situation and/or suffering.

  1. Learn to give

Generosity is a key element of kindness. It’s up to you what you choose to provide, whether it’s time, the space to listen, money, or other practical help. Volunteering is a great way to do something real and constructive when it might seem that the world is a perilous state.

I appreciate this quote from Og Mandino:

“Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend to them all the care, kindness, and understanding you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again.”

And from one of the most ancient books, the Bible: 1 Corinthians 13:4, “Love is patient and kind…”

Simple Ways to put kindness in action:

Showing kindness to others does not have to be grand gestures and events that publicly demonstrate to others that we’re kind.  Very often it’s simple daily gestures that make life more enjoyable for each of us and for those to whom we show small acts of kindness.

Here are some simple everyday ways to include kindness in your day:

  1. Stop to let a pedestrian cross the street or to allow another driver into the traffic.
  2. Say please and thank you.
  3. Say good morning and good night to your colleagues.
  4. Smile at a stranger.
  5. Hold the door for the next person.
  6. Hold the elevator.
  7. Let someone with only a few items go in front of you in the grocery store.
  8. Do a coffee run for your colleagues.
  9. Hug your loved ones.
  10. Push the trash bins out for your neighbors.
  11. Mow your elderly neighbor’s lawn.
  12. If you’re going to the store, ask your neighbor if you can pick anything up for them.
  13. Try volunteering at your local soup kitchen or shelter.
  14. Be the bigger person and let the other guy have the coveted parking space.
  15. Stand up for someone on the bus or subway.
  16. Ask a stressed-out co-worker if you can help.
  17. Help wash the cups after a meeting.
  18. If the photocopier is running on empty, replace the toner and fill the paper bin.
  19. Buy surprise flowers for your partner.
  20. Give a contribution to a street entertainer.
  21. Commit to stop grousing for a week.
  22. Join your company’s mentor or buddy program.
  23. Leave a book or magazine on the subway or in a bus station.
  24. Donate your excess art supplies or craft materials to an elementary school.
  25. Encourage your kids to sort through their stuff and donate items in good condition to charity.
  26. Donate money to your favorite charity or non-government organization.
  27. Notice what your partner or colleagues are wearing and pay a few compliments.
  28. Ask friends or colleagues how they are and listen to the answers.
  29. Reach out to family members or friends, send a text message, or call them to see how they are.
  30. Clean up your neighborhood. If you see trash in the street, pick it up and put it in the

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Yvonne A. Jones
Yvonne A. Joneshttps://50andwisercoaching.com/
YVONNE is a Personal Business Coach | Relationship Marketing Strategist| Amazon Best-Selling Author| International Speaker. She is the Founder of the 50 and Wiser Community on Facebook – a Group of women who want to DO more, GIVE more, and BE more. As a certified Strategy and Accountability Coach, she helps Entrepreneurs, Coaches, Consultants, and Small Business Owners eliminate limiting beliefs, create a business they love, and have fun doing so. Her favorite client is a highly-motivated woman 50 and Wiser who has been in business for approximately one year and is ready to empower herself and move to the next level. Yvonne’s background is in banking, Human Resources, administration, and Customer Service. At 52 years she handed in her resignation and walked away from Corporate America to start her own business full-time. She has experienced the joys and challenges of owning multiple businesses. She was listed on HuffingtonPost.com as one of the “Top 100 Most Social Customer Service Pros on Twitter” and on GetApp.com: “One of the Top 15 Most Influential Customer Service Experts to Follow on Twitter.” Despite the recognition and promotions received while in corporate life in Jamaica and America, she now considers herself “unemployable” due to her love of being her own boss and inspiring others to pursue their passion and dreams. Yvonne’s mantra: “Focus on relationships; the money will follow.”

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